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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #180 on: March 15, 2021, 08:26:03 PM »
Ridiculous reason. Plain imitation of left wing mob cancel culture.
if they are supporting him then they got involved...

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #181 on: March 15, 2021, 08:29:12 PM »
This thread has been active the entire day.
Maybe this thread would be helpful??
 ;)
https://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=115175.3800
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #182 on: March 15, 2021, 08:44:39 PM »
This thread has been active the entire day.
Maybe this thread would be helpful??
 ;)
https://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=115175.3800

Already was, which is why this thread was active all day.
Failing at maintaining Lurker status.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #183 on: March 15, 2021, 08:46:43 PM »
This thread has been active the entire day.
Maybe this thread would be helpful??
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https://forums.dansdeals.com/index.php?topic=115175.3800
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #184 on: March 15, 2021, 09:05:26 PM »
#bainhazmanim
Go help your wives, that's the reason you have Bein Hazmanim, otherwise you might end up being discussed in this thread!

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #185 on: March 15, 2021, 09:08:04 PM »
Go help your wives, that's the reason you have Bein Hazmanim, otherwise you might end up being discussed in this thread!
What if the wife thinks the zman ends next week?
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #186 on: March 15, 2021, 09:08:29 PM »
What if the wife thinks the zman ends next week?
Then you'd better hope she's not on DDF
Workflowy. You won't know what you're missing until you try it.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #187 on: March 15, 2021, 09:10:14 PM »
What if the wife thinks the zman ends next week?
THIS WAS A JOKE!!!!! OKAY?? I WAS NOT SERIOUS!!! REALLLY!
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #188 on: March 15, 2021, 09:10:51 PM »
Then you'd better hope she's not on DDF
Thanks for the heads up...
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #189 on: March 15, 2021, 10:22:17 PM »
THIS WAS A JOKE!!!!! OKAY?? I WAS NOT SERIOUS!!! REALLLY!
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #190 on: March 15, 2021, 10:35:04 PM »
For some reason, "Ask the Rabbi" on Abie Rotenberg's "A Time to Laugh" comes to mind...
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #191 on: March 15, 2021, 11:03:14 PM »
What if the wife thinks the zman ends next week?
Reminds me of this...



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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #192 on: March 15, 2021, 11:49:34 PM »
https://vosizneias.com/2021/03/15/get-refuser-dovid-wasserman-silences-social-media-campaign-that-brought-awareness-to-plight-of-agunah/

next case.

but why include the guys siblings names??  how on earth is that justified?  his parents i understand. they are harboring him. but why the whole family?
A big Rov in Monsey who knows the case said they can do this.

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #193 on: March 16, 2021, 12:20:38 AM »
https://vosizneias.com/2021/03/15/get-refuser-dovid-wasserman-silences-social-media-campaign-that-brought-awareness-to-plight-of-agunah/

next case.

but why include the guys siblings names??  how on earth is that justified?  his parents i understand. they are harboring him. but why the whole family?

For some reason my filter is blocking this.  Can someone please summarize for me?

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #194 on: March 16, 2021, 12:23:58 AM »
For some reason my filter is blocking this.  Can someone please summarize for me?
your filter blocks lashon hara! Pretty neat!


ETA: 😜
nothings impossible- the word itself says Im possible

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #195 on: March 16, 2021, 12:40:58 AM »
https://www.sefaria.org/Pesachim.108a.10?lang=bi&with=all&lang2=en

אִשָּׁה אֵצֶל בַּעְלָהּ לָא בָּעֲיָא הֲסִיבָּה, וְאִם אִשָּׁה חֲשׁוּבָה הִיא צְרִיכָה הֲסִיבָּה

A woman who is with her husband is not required to recline, but if she is an important woman, she is required to recline.

todays day in age all woman (wives) are considered חֲשׁוּבָה/important  and that changed with the cherem rabainu gershom, back in the day a man had multiple wives and they were one of many, todays day in age however its one and one times  have changed and the reason why woman don't have a chiyuv to recline is because there is a different shitah that no one needs to reclines today as its not the costume for wealthy recline
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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #196 on: March 16, 2021, 12:44:34 AM »
"אוהבה כגופו ומכבדה יותר מגופו"
Can we please stop bashing the Torah with saying "Women in the Torah are property similar to slaves"??


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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #198 on: March 16, 2021, 06:12:47 PM »
https://www.sefaria.org/Pesachim.108a.10?lang=bi&with=all&lang2=en

אִשָּׁה אֵצֶל בַּעְלָהּ לָא בָּעֲיָא הֲסִיבָּה, וְאִם אִשָּׁה חֲשׁוּבָה הִיא צְרִיכָה הֲסִיבָּה

A woman who is with her husband is not required to recline, but if she is an important woman, she is required to recline.

todays day in age all woman (wives) are considered חֲשׁוּבָה/important  and that changed with the cherem rabainu gershom, back in the day a man had multiple wives and they were one of many, todays day in age however its one and one times  have changed and the reason why woman don't have a chiyuv to recline is because there is a different shitah that no one needs to reclines today as its not the costume for wealthy recline
It's not clear that that was ever particularly common.
״וזה כלל גדול: שישנא אדם כל דבר שקר. וכל מה שיוסיף שנאה לדרכי השקר יוסיף אהבה לתורה.״ - אורחות צדיקים

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Re: Get Refusal
« Reply #199 on: March 16, 2021, 06:16:54 PM »
As someone who is BH not closely familiar with this, I read this thread with a sort of "zoomed out" view. The fine text (the detailed posts of halacha, legalities, etc discussed here) are blurred out and all i see is the general topic.
The picture I see is not pretty. What I see is painted in the dark, ugly, and dirty shades of blacks and greys of abuse, aggression, taking advantage of others, bullying, and many other rude behaviors.
And it is so so sad.
Heartbreaking.

I wouldn't blame our generation, because I believe that bad conduct has been occurring for centuries and millennia in some way, shape, or form.

I pray (and hope that you will join me!) that Hashem heal all the afflicted among us, whether physically, spiritually, or more particular to this thread, emotionally and mentally, and may the picture be painted over with the yellows, ivories, and pinks of sunshine, caring, and love for our fellow Jews (and all people). May we all rejoice happily as brothers and sisters, arm in arm, in Yerushalyim Habniya speedily in our days!
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