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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1060 on: March 10, 2022, 10:41:14 PM »
One question I have is why are we theorizing what Chassidus might hold or not hold when we generally consider Halacha an overriding factor? Meaning, if you have clear guidance on what the Rebbe held, then please do so. But if all you have is people's minhagim based on Boch Sevaras or mistaken assumptions (see Rabbenu Tam on some Minhag Medina), then why we do we override Halacha or standard Minhag based on that?

You probably are unfamiliar with the following:

פון וואנען איז א ראיה אז א מנהג איז שטארקער ווי דער דין?

ווייל דער דין איז אז אויב מ׳באָרגט געלט, מוז מען צוריק צאָלען.

און דער מנהג איז אז מ׳צאָלט נישט צוריק!

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1061 on: March 10, 2022, 11:17:07 PM »
You probably are unfamiliar with the following:

פון וואנען איז א ראיה אז א מנהג איז שטארקער ווי דער דין?

ווייל דער דין איז אז אויב מ׳באָרגט געלט, מוז מען צוריק צאָלען.

און דער מנהג איז אז מ׳צאָלט נישט צוריק!

 ;D
Yankel Miller once told over a story about a bneshek (rebbish einikel) who borrowed money, and right away Yankel Miller moved on to next joke, the audience interrupted him that he didn't finish the previous story about the bneshek who borrowed money, to which Yankel reponded, "Oh, that's the end of the story".

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1062 on: March 10, 2022, 11:48:55 PM »
Sorry for my ignorance, but who is Rabbi Chaikin?

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1063 on: March 10, 2022, 11:53:11 PM »
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1064 on: March 11, 2022, 09:24:35 AM »
n00b here, but is the chidon always such an unorganized mess?

Got this for Rafi. Sums up a year of frustration about this poorly run organization and their support for Anash Kinder. Which is a shame as Rafi loved learning about all the mitzvos and their halachic minutiae, which is a massive black hole in Jewish education.


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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1065 on: March 11, 2022, 09:31:51 AM »
Got this for Rafi. Sums up a year of frustration about this poorly run organization and their support for Anash Kinder. Which is a shame as Rafi loved learning about all the mitzvos and their halachic minutiae, which is a massive black hole in Jewish education.


i was working with a number of boys this year who were learning for chidon and they had a great experience.
maybe there is a difference working with them directly or with a school...

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1066 on: March 11, 2022, 09:42:40 AM »
i was working with a number of boys this year who were learning for chidon and they had a great experience.
maybe there is a difference working with them directly or with a school...
I don't think Dan is saying it's bad for the kids per se, but disorganized for parents and out of towners.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1067 on: March 11, 2022, 09:42:44 AM »
i was working with a number of boys this year who were learning for chidon and they had a great experience.
maybe there is a difference working with them directly or with a school...
their support for Anash Kinder.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1068 on: March 11, 2022, 09:45:49 AM »
Got this for Rafi. Sums up a year of frustration about this poorly run organization and their support for Anash Kinder. Which is a shame as Rafi loved learning about all the mitzvos and their halachic minutiae, which is a massive black hole in Jewish education.



Have you contacted the organizers? My daughter chose not to do chidon, so I have no skin in the game. But I've seen complaints on a numbers of groups and forums, and I'm wondering how many people sent their constructive comments to the organizers. Don't get me wrong, I'm not all that confident things would change, I'm a former employee of the organization that runs it, and unfortunately passion, good intentions, and selfless dedication and devotion don't always translate into professionalism and efficiency.

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1069 on: March 11, 2022, 09:51:37 AM »
Have you contacted the organizers? My daughter chose not to do chidon, so I have no skin in the game. But I've seen complaints on a numbers of groups and forums, and I'm wondering how many people sent their constructive comments to the organizers. Don't get me wrong, I'm not all that confident things would change, I'm a former employee of the organization that runs it, and unfortunately passion, good intentions, and selfless dedication and devotion don't always translate into professionalism and efficiency.
@e-Lawyer has given lots of constructive feedback about Anash Kinder, but I don't think it has changed a thing or that anyone is listening to him. I guess I should as well.

Meanwhile instead of a Shabbaton, they're still using COVID as an excuse for no Shabbaton? So Rafi and other Anash Kinder need to miss 3 days of school as the trip is smack in middle of the week and starts and ends too early and late in the day to fly in or out on the trip date. There's just no respect. :(
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1070 on: March 11, 2022, 09:54:39 AM »
Meanwhile instead of a Shabbaton, they're still using COVID as an excuse for no Shabbaton? So Rafi and other Anash Kinder need to miss 3 days of school as the trip is smack in middle of the week and starts and ends too early and late in the day to fly in or out on the trip date. There's just no respect. :(

Wrong thread. That goes in the cons of where you live.  :P
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1071 on: March 11, 2022, 09:55:49 AM »
Wrong thread. That goes in the cons of where you live.  :P
There's still COVID concerns for kids in CH? Sad!
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1072 on: March 11, 2022, 09:56:41 AM »
There's still COVID concerns for kids in CH? Sad!
How do we get CTeen to run Chidon?
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1073 on: March 11, 2022, 10:05:19 AM »
@e-Lawyer has given lots of constructive feedback about Anash Kinder, but I don't think it has changed a thing or that anyone is listening to him. I guess I should as well.

Meanwhile instead of a Shabbaton, they're still using COVID as an excuse for no Shabbaton? So Rafi and other Anash Kinder need to miss 3 days of school as the trip is smack in middle of the week and starts and ends too early and late in the day to fly in or out on the trip date. There's just no respect. :(

I don't know why I get so upset reading these. I haven't worked there in more than a decade, but my proudest work is probably what I did there. I'm not sure who e-lawyer is and what his suggestions are. But if still speak up and encourage anyone you hear complaining to do the same.

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1074 on: March 11, 2022, 10:10:35 AM »
How do we get CTeen to run Chidon?

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1075 on: March 11, 2022, 10:14:02 AM »
There's still COVID concerns for kids in CH? Sad!

Haven't had those for almost two years.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1076 on: March 11, 2022, 10:22:13 AM »
Haven't had those for almost two years.
So where is the Chidon Shabbaton that's been cancelled since March 2020?
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1077 on: March 11, 2022, 10:23:05 AM »
Wrong thread. That goes in the cons of where you live.  :P

In Dan’s worldview it’s the pros of CLE and cons of everywhere else master thread.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1078 on: March 11, 2022, 10:23:44 AM »
How do we get CTeen to run Chidon?

That’s a politically loaded question, we now have a politics board for those :P
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #1079 on: March 11, 2022, 10:25:51 AM »
So where is the Chidon Shabbaton that's been cancelled since March 2020?

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