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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #580 on: September 18, 2021, 11:02:09 PM »
Assuming the obligation to enforce where we have the power does not carry to an obligation to influence where we have that power
Evidently

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #581 on: September 19, 2021, 12:13:50 AM »
Please forgive me Bc I’m 100% sure this was asked before but don’t have the will to search for it:

I’m reading rubashkin’s book and he says farbrengan a lot. What exactly is a farbrengan and does it involve vodka ?
nothings impossible- the word itself says Im possible

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #582 on: September 19, 2021, 12:15:23 AM »
Please forgive me Bc I’m 100% sure this was asked before but don’t have the will to search for it:

I’m reading rubashkin’s book and he says farbrengan a lot. What exactly is a farbrengan and does it involve vodka ?
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #583 on: September 19, 2021, 12:23:03 AM »
Please forgive me Bc I’m 100% sure this was asked before but don’t have the will to search for it:

I’m reading rubashkin’s book and he says farbrengan a lot. What exactly is a farbrengan and does it involve vodka ?
farbrengan = get togethor

usually by a farbrengan  you would discuss chasidus but not necessarily, and usually there is also what to water your mouth with להחיות את העצמות היבשות
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #584 on: September 19, 2021, 12:24:24 AM »
Please forgive me Bc I’m 100% sure this was asked before but don’t have the will to search for it:

I’m reading rubashkin’s book and he says farbrengan a lot. What exactly is a farbrengan and does it involve vodka ?
וואס א חסידישער פארבריינגען קען אויפטאן קען מלאך מיכאל ניט אויפטאן
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #585 on: September 19, 2021, 12:25:39 AM »
farbrengan = get togethor

usually by a farbrengan  you would discuss chasidus but not necessarily, and usually there is also what to water your mouth with להחיות את העצמות היבשות
how come only Lubavitch uses the word farbrengan if it just means a get together ?
nothings impossible- the word itself says Im possible

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #586 on: September 19, 2021, 12:26:20 AM »
how come only Lubavitch uses the word farbrengan if it just means a get together ?
Because it does not mean just a get together.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #587 on: September 19, 2021, 12:28:45 AM »
Because it does not mean just a get together.
is there a parallel to a non Lubavitcher? Is it like a kumzits? With less singing and more dvar torah or something? A chaburah?
Here’s a line from the book: they made it (rubashkins torah emails) into a small weekly shiur which consisted in part of learning the dvar Torah I sent that week after which they would farbreng a bit.

What did they do at the farbregen do you think?
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #588 on: September 19, 2021, 12:31:51 AM »
is there a parallel to a non Lubavitcher?
No.
@Yehuda57 can probably eloquently explain what a farbrengen is.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #589 on: September 19, 2021, 08:16:38 AM »
No.
@Yehuda57 can probably eloquently explain what a farbrengen is.
As a non-Lubabvitcher, my perception of it is if a kumzitz, d'rosho, and purim seuda had a baby...

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #590 on: September 19, 2021, 08:26:09 AM »
As a non-Lubabvitcher, my perception of it is if a kumzitz, d'rosho, and purim seuda had a baby...

Who was the surrogate (in your perception)?
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #591 on: September 19, 2021, 08:28:28 AM »
Who was the surrogate (in your perception)?
Your asking too many questions to someone who has never actually attended a farbrengen.

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #592 on: September 19, 2021, 08:51:34 AM »
Your asking too many questions to someone who has never actually attended a farbrengen.

One too many.

Not asking about a farbrengen, asking about your perception (three things having a baby).

P.S.  I expect you at my Sukkah on Chol Hamoed so we can have a farbrengen.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #593 on: September 19, 2021, 09:02:05 AM »
One too many.

Not asking about a farbrengen, asking about your perception (three things having a baby).

P.S.  I expect you at my Sukkah on Chol Hamoed so we can have a farbrengen.
lol. I didn't understand the question, but now I get it.

I would take you up on your offer, but I'm OOT now, plus I would need it to come with babysitting services...  :)

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #594 on: September 19, 2021, 09:35:41 AM »
plus I would need it to come with babysitting services...  :)

You seem to think babies are essential to the farbrengen, why not bring them with?

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #595 on: September 19, 2021, 09:49:00 AM »
lol. I didn't understand the question, but now I get it.

I would take you up on your offer, but I'm OOT now, plus I would need it to come with babysitting services...  :)

It wasn't an offer. It's expected!
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #596 on: September 19, 2021, 10:14:33 AM »
No.
@Yehuda57 can probably eloquently explain what a farbrengen is.

It's not easy. Trying to explain why a farbrengen is not like a kumzitz to someone who hasn't sung this at a farbrengen is like trying to explain the grand canyon to a blind person.

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #597 on: September 19, 2021, 01:12:20 PM »
Why the beating around the bush? Farbrengen is a good, sweet, inexpensive table wine.

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #598 on: September 19, 2021, 04:13:54 PM »
Why the beating around the bush? Farbrengen is a good, sweet, inexpensive table wine.

Debatable.

Though IIRC you might find some explanation of the term printed somewhere on the label.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #599 on: September 19, 2021, 05:17:11 PM »
Debatable.

Though IIRC you might find some explanation of the term printed somewhere on the label.
I think Reb Hillel Paritcher's saying is there