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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #960 on: March 09, 2022, 08:33:46 PM »
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #961 on: March 09, 2022, 08:53:03 PM »
News to me based on seeing bochurim getting an aliya and/or davening at the amud at most non-Chabad shuls.
Yes, that is for kavod hatzibur not for the mitzvah of Tzitzis.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #962 on: March 09, 2022, 09:07:37 PM »

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #963 on: March 09, 2022, 09:09:39 PM »
That's all? I'm that cheap??

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #964 on: March 09, 2022, 09:11:39 PM »
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #965 on: March 09, 2022, 09:15:33 PM »
Yes, that is for kavod hatzibur not for the mitzvah of Tzitzis.
Never said anything about mitzvas tzitzes. It's still a no-no among Lubavitchers for the reasons stated above.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #966 on: March 09, 2022, 09:16:51 PM »
Never said anything about mitzvas tzitzes. It's still a no-no among Lubavitchers for the reasons stated above.
So if a Lubavitcher Bochur davens before the Amud (Shachris, for example) he won't wear a talis?

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #967 on: March 09, 2022, 09:17:46 PM »
No
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #968 on: March 09, 2022, 09:18:01 PM »
Never said anything about mitzvas tzitzes. It's still a no-no among Lubavitchers for the reasons stated above.
The vast majority of Ashkenazi Jews don't wear a talis until they are married.
is about the mitzvah,
bochurim getting an aliya and/or davening at the amud at most non-Chabad shuls.
is for kovod hatzibbur. So, no Stirah.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #969 on: March 09, 2022, 09:24:52 PM »
is about the mitzvah, is for kovod hatzibbur. So, no Stirah.
No. I haven't been talking about the mitzvah. Lubavitcher bochurim never wear a talis until married, period.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #970 on: March 09, 2022, 09:28:49 PM »
No. I haven't been talking about the mitzvah. Lubavitcher bochurim never wear a talis until married, period.
@aygart 's post was about the mitzvah, presumably, I don't think (m)any non-Lubavitchers were aware that Lubavitchers don't even wear it for Kovod hatzibur.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #971 on: March 09, 2022, 09:30:53 PM »
A Lubavitcher bochur would be wearing a hat and jacket for that purpose. But never a talis.
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #972 on: March 09, 2022, 09:44:36 PM »
Most non Lubavitcher bochurim even when wearing a talis for the amud/aliya wont wear it on the head, they'll keep their hat on.

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #973 on: March 09, 2022, 09:50:49 PM »
A Lubavitcher bochur would be wearing a hat and jacket for that purpose. But never a talis.

Not so true. Depends on the rabbi of the shul. Chasanim wear for their aliyah, and many for their bar Mitzvah aliyah. Where I grew up, some said if the majority of the shul were wearing taleisim, you should wear for an aliyah (not for davenning for the amud or other kibudim).

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #974 on: March 09, 2022, 10:01:36 PM »
many for their bar Mitzvah aliyah.
Never seen this.

Where I grew up, some said if the majority of the shul were wearing taleisim, you should wear for an aliyah (not for davenning for the amud or other kibudim).
Some are Lubavitcher rabonim?
FWIW, Rabbi Chaikin told me no exceptions, other than ufruf of course.

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #975 on: March 09, 2022, 10:03:04 PM »
Never seen this.
Some are Lubavitcher rabonim?
FWIW, Rabbi Chaikin told me no exceptions, other than ufruf of course.
Yes, though I didn't grow up a member of the Lubavitch shul, so I could be getting things wrong

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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #976 on: March 09, 2022, 10:07:49 PM »
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #977 on: March 09, 2022, 10:33:40 PM »
No. I haven't been talking about the mitzvah. Lubavitcher bochurim never wear a talis until married, period.

Except if saying סליחות by the omud in Elul (and someone in the minyan is aware).

ETA: And in that case the Tallis needs to go over the head, even for a bochur.
« Last Edit: March 10, 2022, 12:54:45 AM by ExGingi »
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #978 on: March 09, 2022, 10:38:43 PM »
A Lubavitcher bochur would be wearing a hat and jacket for that purpose. But never a talis.

And when kovud hatzibbur (and self-respect) went out the window, along went jackets (and sometimes hats).
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Re: Ask a Lubavitcher Anything
« Reply #979 on: March 09, 2022, 10:44:01 PM »
And when kovud hatzibbur (and self-respect) went out the window, along went jackets (and sometimes hats).
to add. Those are not just kovid hatzibur, I would probably be in the category of הכין