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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #100 on: March 09, 2021, 09:20:43 PM »
"Will she be willing to shave off her hair after the chupah?" She was not chassidish, only sort of heimish. I said no, without asking her. I told the girl after she was happily married to someone else for several years. She thanked me enthusiastically.

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #101 on: March 09, 2021, 11:11:24 PM »
"Will she be willing to shave off her hair after the chupah?" She was not chassidish, only sort of heimish. I said no, without asking her. I told the girl after she was happily married to someone else for several years. She thanked me enthusiastically.
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That’s a pretty intense question imo but I’m not from those circles so idk how intense it is in chassidish communities 🤷‍♂️
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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #102 on: March 09, 2021, 11:36:43 PM »
Real question:

What would you do if you found $1,000 lying in the street Shabbos morning?

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #103 on: March 09, 2021, 11:44:49 PM »
Real question:

What would you do if you found $1,000 lying in the street Shabbos morning?

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #104 on: March 09, 2021, 11:52:27 PM »
Real question:

What would you do if you found $1,000 lying in the street Shabbos morning?
Punch yourself in the face, see stars, say Baruch Hamavdil & you’re good to go.

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #105 on: March 09, 2021, 11:56:05 PM »
"Will she be willing to shave off her hair after the chupah?" She was not chassidish, only sort of heimish. I said no, without asking her. I told the girl after she was happily married to someone else for several years. She thanked me enthusiastically.
I think usually on such important matters the shidduch won't happen anyway before getting a clear affirmation.

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #106 on: March 10, 2021, 12:52:44 AM »
Punch yourself in the face, see stars, say Baruch Hamavdil & you’re good to go.
My 6 yr old tried doing that once,
wanted to do something muktza so he started saying Baruch hamavdil

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #107 on: March 10, 2021, 12:56:45 AM »
do something muktza
Pet peeve. Muktza is a noun, you can't 'do' muktza.
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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #108 on: March 10, 2021, 12:57:45 AM »
Pet peeve. Muktza is a noun, you can't 'do' muktza.
Wrong thread
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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #109 on: March 10, 2021, 01:44:29 AM »
I think usually on such important matters the shidduch won't happen anyway before getting a clear affirmation.

(And btw.. Welcome to the forums! What a great way to learn about DDF.. Would be the most unique option here..)
It was weird because the woman gave no previous indication that she’d want a girl like that.

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #110 on: March 10, 2021, 04:37:10 AM »
when being asked about an overweight girl -
"So which weight loss methods has she tried?"  and   "doesn't she care about her health"

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #111 on: March 10, 2021, 08:04:15 AM »
Does she cover her face with the siddur when davening.

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #112 on: March 10, 2021, 09:18:08 AM »
when being asked about an overweight girl -
"So which weight loss methods has she tried?"  and   "doesn't she care about her health"

And that, Dr, is when the eating disorder started
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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #113 on: March 10, 2021, 11:00:01 AM »
"Will she be willing to shave off her hair after the chupah?" She was not chassidish, only sort of heimish. I said no, without asking her. I told the girl after she was happily married to someone else for several years. She thanked me enthusiastically.

Reminds me of a something a shadchan told a Yeshivish friend of mine's sister - "He comes from a Chasidish family, but don't worry, he has no plans on wearing a streimel when he gets married"

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Re: What's The Craziest Shidduch Question You've Been Asked?
« Reply #114 on: April 07, 2021, 01:56:58 PM »
Like Shaq and his girlfriend?

So I just looked this up.

Answer: yes, actually :-X.
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