Can you disclose on the amounts of the death benefits? I'm curious what the numbers are
What's the point? I really don't see how looking into other people's situations changes anything for yourself.
The fact is that in one case the death benefit was large enough that leaving the proceeds with the company to pay a guaranteed 3% was sufficient to maintain the family lifestyle, and in the other case that would not be sufficient. These could be totally hypothetical cases.
The only way to really asses things is to do a proper (guided, if needed) introspection at
what things might look like if you were gone yesterday. What adjustments to lifestyle would you want for your family (other than those that have nothing to do with money)?