Did a lot of this with a Mint dump for the whole 2020.
Location: KGH
50k - Childcare (school and daycamp for 4th and 2nd grader, pre-k school and camp for 1, 1 at home with fulltime babysitter)
30k - Home (mortgage, insurance, property tax, gas/electric, water/sewer, internet, gardener, etc)
10k - Food
5k - Health (premiums/dues, medical/dental expenses, gym, etc)
5k - Transportation (own 1 used minivan - gas, tolls, parking, tickets, repairs)
2k - Vacation/Entertainment
2k - Insurance (life, disability, umbrella, etc)
Tack on ~20% effective income tax rate, ~10% to retirement accounts, 10% maaser.
Left out clothing and other general purchases since it's hard to sift through that stuff with my setup, but even a very broad estimate would be 10k at the absolute max.
A lot of this changes pretty rapidly (childcare likely to go up ~5-10k for next schoolyear), or was affected by covid/work at home (transportation, vacation, food will all go up).