Of course. So you finally agree our support does bring extra hate with it?
I will say it again. The extra hate we receive is a price we are willing to pay. The aid we give should be given.
No one disputes it brings "extra" hate, we just don't think it brings new hate or that the amount of hate changes anything for the US on a practical level.
This might help explain it. I give my son 100k to start a business. He comes back and wants 10k more. I look at it as a partnership because he is family but in reality he is being ungrateful when he can really use his own money.
Ah. Now let's say your son started a business and brought you on as a minority partner. Say he invested $10M and you bought in for $100k. The business had unexpected repair expenses to the tune of $100k, and he asks you for an extra $1k to help cover things. Is he ungrateful?
Israel's GDP is $395B. The US gives them $3.8B in military equipment under the guise of "aid." We see it as a good investment to have a finger in that particular pie. Things happen, damage occurs, and Israel says to the US, "We know you see this as a worthwhile investment. Can you please throw us an extra few million dollars to help get things back to the way they need to be?"
You, and the US, can say no. It's a request, not a demand. Your son, and Israel, know that the investment is valued, so when they need extra help, they turn to their investors and ask for more money. The request isn't done in a disrespectful way, nor is it attached to threats or expectations or BS excuses. It's just a request.
You know what the biggest problem with this analogy is? Israel is not your son. The US didn't birth it and didn't raise it. Israel is its own country. The US has been a great friend, investor, benefactor, defender, and ally. This hasn't been altruistic, as US interests have always been foremost for us, but it has been very appreciated and highly valued by Israel. Israel does not make requests of money from the US as a dependent in desperate need of a handout, but as an independent entity, turning to a friend, investor, and benefactor for additional investment in order to speed up the recovery process after unfortunate circumstances.