@CountValentine Ultimately, you and the world need to make some very clear definitions before any questions of culpability or overreaction can be asked.
1- what is a military?
2- who is considered to be part of said military and who is considered a civilian?
3- what is considered a military target?
4- when a civilian is inside a military target (say sitting in a tank), does that demilitarize the target?
4a- If the target is attacked and the civilian inside dies, is that a civilian death?
4b- If it is, is it equal to a civilian death away from military targets?
We've already agreed that death count isn't a metric anyone should be using to gauge whether a response was appropriate or measured. I don't understand how you can play devil's advocate without first coming up with a good reason for death counts to be used to determine anything.