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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #20 on: July 05, 2021, 12:25:08 AM »
He probably gets his news from https://jpnewsny.com/
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #21 on: July 05, 2021, 12:27:55 AM »
You mean this

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I'm sorry, but if this is his טענה...

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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #22 on: July 05, 2021, 12:29:30 AM »
What % of his clientele are tourists? Catering to tourists (no pun intended) could bankroll his local operations (happens a lot for Chabad rabbis in touristy places, maybe he should recognize those phone calls are an opportunity.

0%. His "clientele" are students.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #23 on: July 05, 2021, 12:30:38 AM »
0%. His "clientele" are students.
Hes talking about St Lucia guy complaining about the restaurant question, the answer is 100%, 100% of HIS clientele are tourists.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #24 on: July 05, 2021, 12:31:26 AM »
0%. His "clientele" are students.

Then his website needs an update:

WHO WE ARE

In the summer of 2018, Rabbi Avromy & Sternie Super together with their two children, established the first Jewish center in S. Lucia, to service the spiritual and physical needs of the local Jewish community, as well as the visitors to the island. Our goal is to strengthen Jewish awareness and pride for the Jewish residents, and the thousands of visitors to S. Lucia, regardless of background or affiliation.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #26 on: July 05, 2021, 12:38:13 AM »
Hes talking about St Lucia guy complaining about the restaurant question, the answer is 100%, 100% of HIS clientele are tourists.

I misread his comment as talking about the OP.

Regarding Super, it's not 100% at all. And people asking about kosher restaurants on a tiny island is a bit of a head scratcher. If you couldn't find it online, it probably doesn't exist.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #27 on: July 05, 2021, 12:38:40 AM »
Then his website needs an update:

Misread who you were referring to.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #28 on: July 05, 2021, 12:39:28 AM »
https://www.chabadkeys.com/templates/articlecco_cdo/aid/1852437/jewish/Minyan.htm
I called for Mincha as it says.
Only to hear that the Shachris info is also outdated.
Again, I have no complaints, The Rabbi doesn't owe me anything. But if he would yell at me for calling in, or complain about it, I have to say, it's more of a "you" problem.

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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #29 on: July 05, 2021, 12:40:26 AM »
What % of his clientele are tourists? Catering to tourists (no pun intended) could bankroll his local operations (happens a lot for Chabad rabbis in touristy places, maybe he should recognize those phone calls are an opportunity.

The guy just went 4 months without milk. There isn't much opportunity there.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #30 on: July 05, 2021, 12:41:52 AM »
https://www.chabadkeys.com/templates/articlecco_cdo/aid/1852437/jewish/Minyan.htm
I called for Mincha as it says.
Only to hear that the Shachris info is also outdated.
Again, I have no complaints, The Rabbi doesn't owe me anything. But if he would yell at me for calling in, or complain about it, I have to say, it's more of a "you" problem.

I don't think anyone has an issue with a quick call to confirm times.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #31 on: July 05, 2021, 12:42:51 AM »
I don't think anyone has an issue with a quick call to confirm times.
Problem is when they excpect the shliach to be a voluntary travel agent
That'sfor super
Zalmanov seems to be disturbed about the minyanim questions

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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #32 on: July 05, 2021, 12:45:47 AM »
I don't think anyone has an issue with a quick call to confirm times.
except.
You mean this

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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #33 on: July 05, 2021, 12:48:03 AM »
except.

He doesn't have one. You're not confirming times when you're calling him.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #35 on: July 05, 2021, 01:13:32 AM »
https://twitter.com/ezalmanov/status/1411808322727120896
Looking at his other recent tweets, I'd vote he wrote this tongue in cheek, trying to be humorous.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #36 on: July 05, 2021, 01:27:32 AM »
I would echo what was said earlier that every shliach is different, different things will irk different ones, due to the circumstances, or even just personality. They are humans too (gasp ;) ).
The common point is that it feels to them  as though people don't use their common sense, which I think is something we all relate to as being annoying.
That being said, different shluchim deal with it in different ways. Some will politely answer the questions and move on, while others that are feeling more overwhelmed might not have the emotional energy to roll with it as much.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #37 on: July 05, 2021, 08:20:02 AM »
Looking at his other recent tweets, I'd vote he wrote this tongue in cheek, trying to be humorous.
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #38 on: July 05, 2021, 08:43:20 AM »
Each one individually doesn't bother me much, venting in public about the many flaws of a frum traveler OTOH...

The problem is more in the airing of dirty laundry than in the laundry being dirty to begin with?
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Re: Please don't overwhelm our brothers
« Reply #39 on: July 05, 2021, 08:50:23 AM »
Each one individually doesn't bother me much, venting in public about the many flaws of a frum traveler OTOH...
That they are pushy for minyanim and tourist info?

Oh the horrors... I'd get where you are coming frum if they posted publicly about calls they get from local PD about arrests of frum travelers or something else actually embarrassing, not sure why this strikes you so badly.

I could think of a few reasons why, but would like to hear your reasons.
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