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Did you ever yell at your spouse?

Yes and I'm Male
31 (50.8%)
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Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« on: August 08, 2021, 04:02:05 PM »
Just taking a poll out there, how prevalent is is for spouses to yell at each other. - Not raising a voice but yelling.
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #1 on: August 08, 2021, 04:05:05 PM »
NO!!!!
« Last Edit: August 08, 2021, 04:18:39 PM by TimT »
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #2 on: August 08, 2021, 04:05:24 PM »
Age matters or should I say years married matter.
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #3 on: August 08, 2021, 04:06:02 PM »
Quote from: TimT on August 08, 2021, 04:05:05 PM
NO!!!!
How long have you been married, any kids?
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #4 on: August 08, 2021, 04:06:08 PM »
Quote from: CountValentine on August 08, 2021, 04:05:24 PM
Age matters or should I say years married matter.

Meaning?
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #5 on: August 08, 2021, 04:07:12 PM »
Quote from: Yenta on August 08, 2021, 04:02:05 PM
Just taking a poll out there, how prevalent is is for spouses to yell at each other. - Not raising a voice but yelling.

At what point does a raised voice become a yell? Is it volume, a length of time, or is it something else, like intent?

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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #6 on: August 08, 2021, 04:08:42 PM »
I’m assuming OP means in frustration, not due to distance or if old, hard of hearing.
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #7 on: August 08, 2021, 04:09:26 PM »
Quote from: Yehuda57 on August 08, 2021, 04:07:12 PM
At what point does a raised voice become a yell? Is it volume, a length of time, or is it something else, like intent?

It's a good question of what's the definition, but those that raised a voice know, and those that yelled know as well.
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #8 on: August 08, 2021, 04:09:41 PM »
Quote from: TimT on August 08, 2021, 04:08:42 PM
I’m assuming OP means in frustration, not due to distance or if old, hard of hearing.

Yes, of course!
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #9 on: August 08, 2021, 04:11:03 PM »
Seems like folks are scared to take the poll. I'm not sure that's a good sign...
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #10 on: August 08, 2021, 04:12:53 PM »
Quote from: Ygold on August 08, 2021, 04:06:08 PM
Meaning?
When we were first married and had kids it happened. Now the kids are grown up and moved out. I can't remember the last time we yelled.
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #11 on: August 08, 2021, 04:13:36 PM »
Quote from: Yenta on August 08, 2021, 04:09:26 PM
It's a good question of what's the definition, but those that raised a voice know, and those that yelled know as well.

LOL, you're likely the spouse that yelled "you should know what did" thinking you barely even raised your voice  :P
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #12 on: August 08, 2021, 04:14:26 PM »
Quote from: Yehuda57 on August 08, 2021, 04:07:12 PM
At what point does a raised voice become a yell? Is it volume, a length of time, or is it something else, like intent?
It is like p*rn but instead of knowing it when you see it, you will know it when you hear it.
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #13 on: August 08, 2021, 04:16:11 PM »
Quote from: CountValentine on August 08, 2021, 04:12:53 PM
When we were first married and had kids it happened. Now the kids are grown up and moved out. I can't remember the last time we yelled.

That's nice, Presumably a lot of marriages are like this. Love grows.
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #14 on: August 08, 2021, 04:16:50 PM »
Quote from: Yehuda57 on August 08, 2021, 04:13:36 PM
LOL, you're likely the spouse that yelled "you should know what did" thinking you barely even raised your voice  :P

lol
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #15 on: August 08, 2021, 04:20:08 PM »
Quote from: CountValentine on August 08, 2021, 04:06:02 PM
How long have you been married, any kids?
Quite a while & quite a few. Rarely raise the voice either.
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #16 on: August 08, 2021, 04:23:54 PM »
Quote from: TimT on August 08, 2021, 04:20:08 PM
Quite a while & quite a few. Rarely raise the voice either.
Nice!
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #17 on: August 08, 2021, 04:25:45 PM »
Me: Never.
My wife: Oh yes you did!
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
« Reply #18 on: August 08, 2021, 04:26:53 PM »
Quote from: YitzyS on August 08, 2021, 04:25:45 PM
Me: Never.
My wife: Oh yes you did!
Never or NEVER!!!  :P
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Re: Did you ever yell at your spouse?
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