I always found it shocking and extremely disturbing how abuse is not treated the same way murder is when the Torah treats it the same way (and treats Eishes Ish the same way), and somehow all of a sudden a ton of people are out in force hushing things and supporting perpetrators, even though we are supposedly so busy with Kedusha Inyanim. All of a sudden, it's ok when these perps actually perpetrate the worst depravities, and we will ignore it all, but it's terrible if someone as a smartphone, especially without a filter, and has issues getting into schools, etc. It makes absolutely no sense and is mind boggling.
Why in the world would someone even think of trying to defend these low lives and ignore it and pretend everything is normal?
I have nothing against being strong in Kedusha Inyanim, but I have no idea how that jives with at the same time ignoring the crimes of abuse and giving the perpetrators a free pass. And I'm not even talking about the Bein Adam Lacheivoroi part where by ignoring the crimes of the perpetrators you literally show that you don't give a hoot about any person or any morals, and you literally kill a generation with the hypocrisy.