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This thread is to discuss whether people feel that something is unethical, not to find out what the law*/T&C says.

Any Halachic questions should be posted here.

*According to CountValentine this includes religion, but unfortunately for him, the general consensus is that religion will always be entwined in this thread.

*Hint* If you have to ask, It's most likely not ethical.
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1620 on: January 07, 2015, 10:38:20 AM »
OK on your scale of 1-10 where would you rate it?
i asked a rav and he said its not so pashut that you can halachlicly. im not sure what the heter is to do something mefurash against the t&c, churning is different because they "may close you down" thats up to them.

if i got a real heter then i would evaluate the ethics side

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1621 on: January 07, 2015, 10:39:56 AM »
i asked a rav and he said its not so pashut that you can halachlicly. im not sure what the heter is to do something mefurash against the t&c, churning is different because they "may close you down" thats up to them.

if i got a real heter then i would evaluate the ethics side
is it wrong to book a flight for someone and sell him the flight?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1622 on: January 07, 2015, 10:40:26 AM »
why cant you sell points? whats the reason behind it?
they have a right to restrict the usage of their rewards as they see fit... this is contrast to my shita of PGGM where i doubt is says mefurash that its not allowed... then me exploiting a loophole is a matter of ethics

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1623 on: January 07, 2015, 10:41:16 AM »
they have a right to restrict the usage of their rewards as they see fit... this is contrast to my shita of PGGM where i doubt is says mefurash that its not allowed... then me exploiting a loophole is a matter of ethics
you seriously think its more wrong to sell points than pull the PGGM?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1624 on: January 07, 2015, 10:41:20 AM »
is it wrong to book a flight for someone and sell him the flight?
thats just saying selling points in more words IMHO

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1625 on: January 07, 2015, 10:41:43 AM »
thats just saying selling points in more words IMHO
but u didnt sell the points
you sold him the booked flight

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1626 on: January 07, 2015, 10:42:43 AM »
you seriously think its more wrong to sell points than pull the PGGM?
yes. when they expressly tell you not to do something how can you do it? if i gave a present with tnai and you dont keep that tnai, dont you owe me that present back?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1627 on: January 07, 2015, 10:43:23 AM »
yes.
not sure how you can argue that
go ask amex if they would rather you PGGM or sell points (refer to it as the "PGGM")

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1628 on: January 07, 2015, 10:45:43 AM »
not sure how you can argue that
go ask amex if they would rather you PGGM or sell points (refer to it as the "PGGM")
im not sure if the halacha is affected by what they'd rather... dvarim shbileiv and all... you are violating t&c by selling not so with PGGM

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1629 on: January 07, 2015, 10:46:09 AM »
im not sure if the halacha is affected by what they'd rather... dvarim shbileiv and all... you are violating t&c by selling not so with PGGM
i thought the point of this thread is ethics, not halacha
and certain things you dont need to list in t&c to be forbidden "being refunded for not spending is forbidden"

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1630 on: January 07, 2015, 10:50:07 AM »
but u didnt sell the points
you sold him the booked flight
Quoted directly from Chase UR website: Points aren't your property and have no cash value. You can't transfer or move points unless expressly provided for in this agreement. Additionally, points can't be transferred by operation of law, such as by inheritance, in bankruptcy or in connection with a divorce.
In another section:
You can move your points, but only to another Chase card with Ultimate Rewards belonging to you, your spouse or domestic partner, or your joint business owner(s), as applicable.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1631 on: January 07, 2015, 10:51:21 AM »
Quoted directly from Chase UR website: Points aren't your property and have no cash value. You can't transfer or move points unless expressly provided for in this agreement. Additionally, points can't be transferred by operation of law, such as by inheritance, in bankruptcy or in connection with a divorce.
In another section:
You can move your points, but only to another Chase card with Ultimate Rewards belonging to you, your spouse or domestic partner, or your joint business owner(s), as applicable.
doesnt say i can book a flight for a friend and ask him for money in return
transfer points to my avios account and book the flight

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1632 on: January 07, 2015, 10:51:46 AM »
i thought the point of this thread is ethics, not halacha
and certain things you dont need to list in t&c to be forbidden "being refunded for not spending is forbidden"
they pay whether you fly or not... shouldnt make a difference to them. if they wrote that in t&c then i wouldnt say that.


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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1633 on: January 07, 2015, 10:53:59 AM »
As i copied from previous post,
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i happen to think anything involving straight up lying is absolutely unethical and gets a 10

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1634 on: January 07, 2015, 10:59:37 AM »
doesnt say i can book a flight for a friend and ask him for money in return
transfer points to my avios account and book the flight
from BA's site:

22.1. Except as otherwise provided by British Airways and communicated to the Member, Avios points are not transferable (whether from person to person, account to account, statement to statement, card to card or otherwise) other than in accordance with the Conditions of Use relating to Transfer Avios and cannot be bequeathed, devised or otherwise transferred by operation of law.

22.2. Any purported purchase, sale, transfer, unauthorised use (including bartering), procurement or redemption of Avios Points issued or awarded to another person or any other use of Avios Points contrary to these Terms and Conditions will constitute a fundamental breach by the Member of these Terms and Conditions and the Conditions of Use relating to Purchase Avios and Transfer Avios and therefore the contract between British Airways and the Member.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1635 on: January 09, 2015, 01:20:56 AM »
My friend's wife went to a doctor's office, and the parking lot was full. Someone had parked a car right in the middle of two spaces, making it impossible for someone to park on either side of their parked car. My friend's wife tried to park in the narrow space next to this car anyway, and scratched the parked car slightly. Should she leave a note with her phone number, or did the person "bring it on himself" for being selfish in the way he parked, making it unnecessary to leave a note?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1636 on: January 09, 2015, 01:28:01 AM »

My friend's wife went to a doctor's office, and the parking lot was full. Someone had parked a car right in the middle of two spaces, making it impossible for someone to park on either side of their parked car. My friend's wife tried to park in the narrow space next to this car anyway, and scratched the parked car slightly. Should she leave a note with her phone number, or did the person "bring it on himself" for being selfish in the way he parked, making it unnecessary to leave a note?
The guys a jerk (not that I'm not guilty of doing that one or twice), but that doesn't give free reign to anyone to cause him damage. 
I always wondered about this with people who double park leaving just enough room to squeeze by, what would happen if I knocked the guys mirror off. Whose responsibility is it?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1637 on: January 09, 2015, 01:29:16 AM »
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1638 on: January 09, 2015, 01:31:58 AM »
My friend's wife went to a doctor's office, and the parking lot was full. Someone had parked a car right in the middle of two spaces, making it impossible for someone to park on either side of their parked car. My friend's wife tried to park in the narrow space next to this car anyway, and scratched the parked car slightly. Should she leave a note with her phone number, or did the person "bring it on himself" for being selfish in the way he parked, making it unnecessary to leave a note?
IMHO, if it would have been someone, say, blocking her driveway, and she tried avoiding them but couldn't,  i would say he "brought it upon himself". Here, though,  i would say that although the person was selfish,  no one made her park there and she chose to do so. (Even though the lot was full, she had no specific right to that spot).

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #1639 on: January 09, 2015, 01:38:34 AM »
IMHO, if it would have been someone, say, blocking her driveway, and she tried avoiding them but couldn't,  i would say he "brought it upon himself".
Should she still leave a note so the person will know who did the damage?
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