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This thread is to discuss whether people feel that something is unethical, not to find out what the law*/T&C says.

Any Halachic questions should be posted here.

*According to CountValentine this includes religion, but unfortunately for him, the general consensus is that religion will always be entwined in this thread.

*Hint* If you have to ask, It's most likely not ethical.
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2280 on: December 20, 2016, 12:23:27 PM »
Is it ethical to take visa gc from an office depot without activating and take them to another office depot to activate and pay?  >:( ;D
Is it ethical to steal?
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2281 on: January 25, 2017, 06:08:16 AM »
Is it ethical to steal?

Not sure if that's actually stealing.
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2282 on: January 25, 2017, 06:09:11 AM »
How about claiming the Delta bag delay 2.5k miles for every trip I go on, because the bags somehow  always take 21 minutes?
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2283 on: January 25, 2017, 06:11:57 AM »
Not sure if that's actually stealing.
Figure that one out first.  ;)
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2284 on: January 25, 2017, 07:45:01 AM »
Is it ethical to take visa gc from an office depot without activating and take them to another office depot to activate and pay?  >:( ;D

VRs all over again...

Is it ethical to steal?

at what point is it considered stealing. what if you forgot your cc in the car and walked out of the store with the GCs in hand with intent to return to the store and pay for it. (yes i know its a bit different)

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2285 on: January 25, 2017, 07:52:01 AM »
at what point is it considered stealing. what if you forgot your cc in the car and walked out of the store with the GCs in hand with intent to return to the store and pay for it. (yes i know its a bit different)
No it is not stealing IMHO. Taking the card because you feel it has no value is stealing.
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2286 on: January 25, 2017, 07:53:26 AM »
No it is not stealing IMHO. Taking the card because you feel it has no value is stealing.

ok so if he is not taking the card because it has no value rather because he intends to pay for it at a different store how does that work.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2287 on: January 25, 2017, 07:58:16 AM »
ok so if he is not taking the card because it has no value rather because he intends to pay for it at a different store how does that work.
Still sealing IMHO. The card does have a value/cost associated with it.
Just ask and most are happy to oblige. You should have seen the trunk of my car at one point.  :)
How about one for you.  ;)
I use the ones from trunk without telling the store. Ethical?
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2288 on: January 25, 2017, 08:06:47 AM »
Still sealing IMHO. The card does have a value/cost associated with it.
Just ask and most are happy to oblige. You should have seen the trunk of my car at one point.  :)
How about one for you.  ;)
I use the ones from trunk without telling the store. Ethical?

well if the store you took them from gave permission why would it be a big deal to tell the store you are using them at?

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2289 on: January 25, 2017, 08:08:26 AM »
well if the store you took them from gave permission why would it be a big deal to tell the store you are using them at?
The reason I don't tell them is because most likely they will tell me I can't use them.
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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2290 on: January 28, 2017, 10:30:40 PM »
Curious for opinions. DW is a early intervention  therapists. She gets paid by the state thru an agency per session. The family is going on vacation and the parents insist (as a favor to the therapists) that they bill the sessions and "make it up some other time". All the other therapists are doing it so if DW writes family on vacation (need to report why session is Canceled if not doing) all the other therapists will be caught lying.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2291 on: January 28, 2017, 10:48:19 PM »
Curious for opinions. DW is a early intervention  therapists. She gets paid by the state thru an agency per session. The family is going on vacation and the parents insist (as a favor to the therapists) that they bill the sessions and "make it up some other time". All the other therapists are doing it so if DW writes family on vacation (need to report why session is Canceled if not doing) all the other therapists will be caught lying.
Just write "patient's family cancelled".

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2292 on: January 28, 2017, 10:58:24 PM »
Just write "patient's family cancelled".

assuming there is no other therapy the same day

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2293 on: January 28, 2017, 11:02:42 PM »
assuming there is no other therapy the same day
there is no shortage of reasons why they could possibly cancel one session in the middle of the day
Feelings don't care about your facts

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2294 on: January 28, 2017, 11:03:11 PM »
assuming there is no other therapy the same day
There is and it's ten days writing that when every other therapist is going to report a session will certainly raise questions

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2295 on: January 28, 2017, 11:29:48 PM »
There is and it's ten days writing that when every other therapist is going to report a session will certainly raise questions
You'd be surprised.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2296 on: January 29, 2017, 09:45:48 AM »
You'd be surprised.
Could be right but the other therapists will be upset with her

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2297 on: January 29, 2017, 10:22:05 AM »
Could be right but the other therapists will be upset with her
So the question is whether its ok to be dishonest in order that coworkers aren't upset with you?
Cant imagine any LOR would allow you to do so, but would recommend asking

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2298 on: January 29, 2017, 10:40:01 AM »
So the question is whether its ok to be dishonest in order that coworkers aren't upset with you?
Cant imagine any LOR would allow you to do so, but would recommend asking
That's not really the question I was just trying to explain the predicament she is in.
Anyway I did already ask a posek and I was told it is OK as long as she makes it up. My wife and I are still uncomfortable with it which is why I was asking  here to hear more opinions.

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Re: Is It Ethical?
« Reply #2299 on: January 29, 2017, 12:10:20 PM »
That's not really the question I was just trying to explain the predicament she is in.
Anyway I did already ask a posek and I was told it is OK as long as she makes it up. My wife and I are still uncomfortable with it which is why I was asking  here to hear more opinions.
Seriously?? U asked a posek and ur coming to the "is it ethical" thread?