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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #40 on: January 31, 2022, 09:13:12 PM »
moiser doesn't apply in a democratic system, especially in a country where you are innocent until proven guilty
Huh??

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #41 on: January 31, 2022, 09:49:18 PM »
The problem with calling 911 is that the car is usually not parked there anymore by the time the cops show up.

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #42 on: January 31, 2022, 10:10:10 PM »
I think most people would assume a driveway that isn't shoveled is not in use.
Until it is
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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #43 on: January 31, 2022, 10:31:26 PM »
moiser doesn't apply in a democratic system, especially in a country where you are innocent until proven guilty
So I guess when we find a place that actually has such a system mesirah won't apply

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #44 on: January 31, 2022, 11:40:16 PM »
here's an idea for a deterrent.
https://youtu.be/jz_qFyTrS8w?t=683

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #45 on: February 01, 2022, 09:39:57 PM »
I've heard of people using tickets as way of deterring repeat offenders (local people)
I imagine that's more effective than it is against occasional passerby

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #46 on: February 01, 2022, 09:56:53 PM »
I once had someone pounding on my door & when I opened he was in my face for taping a piece of paper to his window asking him to please not block my driveway anymore. “It was only blocking a few feet”. ::) He threatened me if I ever do it again. I said next time I won’t do it, I’ll have the cops leave a piece of paper. Or maybe I’ll just give your car the key treatment. Man was he steaming 

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #47 on: February 01, 2022, 11:01:05 PM »
I once had someone pounding on my door & when I opened he was in my face for taping a piece of paper to his window asking him to please not block my driveway anymore. “It was only blocking a few feet”. ::)

… I said next time … maybe I’ll just give your car “only a few feet” of the key treatment.
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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #48 on: February 01, 2022, 11:30:28 PM »
In the spirit of this thread, I once did (what I think was) an awesome shtick, and I'm still proud of it until today (perhaps wrongly, but still...).

I came to Aisle 9 in Lakewood, and a car was parked across two spots. Normally, when a car is taking up two spots, you can't know if it's really their fault, as maybe the cars that came before parked funny, and this was the only option at the time. But at Aisle 9, there are medal rods at the end, so it was obvious that this person could've moved into the last spot. (see below, red car was offender, green car was mine. I also attached a Google picture, which shows a car parked there properly.)

So... I just blocked the car in, and went inside to do my shopping. Sure enough, a few minutes later a lady comes in and starts calling out, "who's blocking my car?!" I calmly told her that it's me, and that she was only entitled to one spot, and that the other spot was rightfully mine, and I was therefore justified to take the only other available spot, which incidentally blocked her in. She was very not happy, but I softly said that I was almost done my shopping, and I would be happy to move my car as soon as I finished paying for my stuff.

I'm quiet certain that she thought twice the next time before parking selfishly again.






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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #49 on: February 01, 2022, 11:39:02 PM »
In the spirit of this thread, I once did (what I think was) an awesome shtick, and I'm still proud of it until today (perhaps wrongly, but still...).

I came to Aisle 9 in Lakewood, and a car was parked across two spots. Normally, when a car is taking up two spots, you can't know if it's really their fault, as maybe the cars that came before parked funny, and this was the only option at the time. But at Aisle 9, there are medal rods at the end, so it was obvious that this person could've moved into the last spot. (see below, red car was offender, green car was mine. I also attached a Google picture, which shows a car parked there properly.)

So... I just blocked the car in, and went inside to do my shopping. Sure enough, a few minutes later a lady comes in and starts calling out, "who's blocking my car?!" I calmly told her that it's me, and that she was only entitled to one spot, and that the other spot was rightfully mine, and I was therefore justified to take the only other available spot, which incidentally blocked her in. She was very not happy, but I softly said that I was almost done my shopping, and I would be happy to move my car as soon as I finished paying for my stuff.

I'm quiet certain that she thought twice the next time before parking selfishly again.





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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #50 on: February 01, 2022, 11:42:45 PM »

I'm quiet certain that she thought twice the next time before parking selfishly again.


I'm quite certain she did no such thing ever, and likely has told this very story with you being the rudest person she's ever met.

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #51 on: February 01, 2022, 11:50:10 PM »
I'm quite certain she did no such thing ever, and likely has told this very story with you being the rudest person she's ever met.
It's crazy how common this is in Lakewood. I've never seen anything like it. I can't resist from telling people off, though. I do usually point it out to them gently and with a smile, hoping that it will actually make a difference in their behavior and attitude.

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #52 on: February 01, 2022, 11:50:50 PM »
It's crazy how common this is in Lakewood. I've never seen anything like it. I can't resist from telling people off, though. I do usually point it out to them gently and with a smile, hoping that it will actually make a difference in their behavior and attitude.
Whats the response ?

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #53 on: February 01, 2022, 11:52:58 PM »
Whats the response ?
Usually, somewhat apologetic, but at the same time mostly playing dumb to avoid looking bad. I had someone 2 days ago who just laughed and told me, "it's Lakewood!" and didn't bother moving.

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #54 on: February 01, 2022, 11:56:09 PM »
Usually, somewhat apologetic, but at the same time mostly playing dumb
As in they didn’t realize they’re taking 2 spots ?

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #56 on: February 02, 2022, 03:44:41 AM »
As in they didn’t realize they’re taking 2 spots ?
Exactly.

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #58 on: February 02, 2022, 08:38:04 AM »

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Re: Should I ticket the vehicle owner who blocks my driveway?
« Reply #59 on: February 02, 2022, 08:39:56 AM »
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