What places were forced closed for more than 3 months?
And what places were forced to stop oncology treatment? I have relatives and coworkers that received oncology treatment in May 2020 in NJ and NY. April in NJ.
And why is this only manifesting in excess non covid deaths now?
One case I know of was in my brother's community in NJ, was undergoing treatments and was well on the road to recovery. His life saving treatments were deemed elective when covid hit at the end of March, and the cancer spread with a vengeance. By the time June came around it was too late to restart treatment and he was moved to hospice.
I can't imagine you'd say to his daughter he was "better off".
If you want to say that it seemed like the right decision at the time, I can understand you. But to say that it was the correct decision even retrospectively, to me is just stunning.
Then there's your comment saying "it's on you" for pushing off screenings and checkups when public health folk and the media were instilling the fear of death into people. At the same time as they were saying, "don't push off medical checkups" *because* they realized how bad it was, they were still making as if being in public was a death sentence.