Systemwide, or specifically BP?
BP, F and W can all be lumped together for the egos. RL is cliquey and YMMV. The smaller neighborhoods by and large do their own thing and take people that can help them with no issues (which means 18 months of chasing and begging as opposed to 10 year waitlists). Add Central for the grift.
I had my issues with Queens over the last 3 years. Dont know whats going on there now. I know I was the only person ever rejected from membership in Queens but thats more of a Central issue than a Queens issue.
paging @netflix
Yes If you want the expose and to know where the bodies are it would take a big netflix check. So many moving parts, specifically the financials.