Author Topic: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein  (Read 5100 times)

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #40 on: May 04, 2022, 04:35:37 PM »
Because it came from the heart. This man exhaled sincerity.

I don’t think this was even on the back of his mind. As he states in the video, he was telling “Abby” that by taking this Talis bag with him to Shul and to his grave L”A, he would be carrying a reminder of her with him forever.
There’s certainly such a concept of taking מעשים טובים along. I’ve seen it a few times.

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #41 on: May 04, 2022, 04:41:12 PM »
There’s certainly such a concept of taking מעשים טובים along. I’ve seen it a few times.

I never said there isn’t. Did you watch the video and are you responding to what I’m commenting on?

Are these a ticket to heaven, his many actions which these are a token of, certainly are. But that was not his intent, which is part of his greatness. He was so matter of factor, so casual, like even he says he wouldn’t close his eyes when “Abby” asked him to.
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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #42 on: May 04, 2022, 04:44:52 PM »
I never said there isn’t. Did you watch the video and are you responding to what I’m commenting on?

Are these a ticket to heaven, his many actions which these are a token of, certainly are. But that was not his intent, which is part of his greatness. He was so matter of factor, so casual, like even he says he wouldn’t close his eyes when “Abby” asked him to.
I watched the video.

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #43 on: May 04, 2022, 05:33:21 PM »
In his own words
https://youtu.be/jnhyiCtMFO4
Thank you for sharing, we lost a legend :(

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #44 on: May 04, 2022, 05:58:52 PM »
Because it came from the heart. This man exhaled sincerity.

I don’t think this was even on the back of his mind. As he states in the video, he was telling “Abby” that by taking this Talis bag with him to Shul and to his grave L”A, he would be carrying a reminder of her with him forever.
Not to take away from your point, but in the video the bringing Tallis bag to the grave was unrelated to “Abby”. It was a given that it will be buried with him. (At least that’s the way it sounded to me…)

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #45 on: May 04, 2022, 07:36:35 PM »
Do you specifically know that's what these were?

this was mentioned
 
Isn't that a navel ring hanging there?
but what i had in mind was tongue piercing i know this because i heard him speak about it

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #46 on: May 04, 2022, 09:12:52 PM »
rabbiwallersteinstories@gmail.com
Don't ask stupid questions and you won't get stupid answers

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #47 on: May 05, 2022, 11:43:49 AM »
Source? It's a nice shtikel torah, but I think most Jewish women have the 1 piercing on each ear, and many major poskim explain why that's mutar. Any halachic issues with further piercings are related to issurim of chavala, chukos hagoyim, maybe even kedoshim tiyu depending on the location - not because of some explicit issue of being like a slave

its in parshas mishpatim. women pierce their ears for beauty, not for rebellion. these otd kids were doing it for rebellion.

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #48 on: May 05, 2022, 12:47:34 PM »
its in parshas mishpatim. women pierce their ears for beauty, not for rebellion. these otd kids were doing it for rebellion.
That's a source for עבד נרצע, not that woman shouldn't get 'rebellious' piercings because it makes them slaves, or whatever you were trying to say. Do you have an actual source for the idea you suggested?

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Re: BDE Rabbi Zecharia Wallerstein
« Reply #49 on: May 05, 2022, 01:09:00 PM »
That's a source for עבד נרצע, not that woman shouldn't get 'rebellious' piercings because it makes them slaves, or whatever you were trying to say. Do you have an actual source for the idea you suggested?

ive heard the vort before. Rabbi Dovid Kaplan brings it down in one of his impact books.