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Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« on: July 24, 2022, 12:02:28 AM »
With the tri-state in the midst of a major heat wave, I thought I would bring this up.

According to the new Yeshivish norm, the minute a boy becomes Bar Mitzvah, he will only ever wear long-sleeve button-down white shirts with very limited exceptions such as when playing sports.

I'm just trying to ask an innocent question without sparking debate as to why this is; this seems to have started at most 10-15 years ago. Indeed, just look at the old Camp Agudah videos.

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #1 on: July 24, 2022, 12:17:00 AM »
With the tri-state in the midst of a major heat wave, I thought I would bring this up.

According to the new Yeshivish norm, the minute a boy becomes Bar Mitzvah, he will only ever wear long-sleeve button-down white shirts with very limited exceptions such as when playing sports.

I'm just trying to ask an innocent question without sparking debate as to why this is; this seems to have started at most 10-15 years ago. Indeed, just look at the old Camp Agudah videos.

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I think its a bit longer than that. But I agree with the question. I guess it's just a style thing

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #2 on: July 24, 2022, 12:42:47 AM »
Button down short sleeve shirts look weird.

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #3 on: July 24, 2022, 12:46:55 AM »
They're worse than taboo - they're considered nerdy.

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #4 on: July 24, 2022, 12:52:42 AM »
Because most yeshivish males arms are gross to look at

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #5 on: July 24, 2022, 12:54:02 AM »
They're worse than taboo - they're considered nerdy.

Depends IMO. There are ways to make it not look terrible.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #6 on: July 24, 2022, 12:54:45 AM »
Because most yeshivish males arms are gross to look at

Fair enough. I’ve seen my fair share of that when vacationing places those guys thought they wouldn’t be seeing anyone  :)
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #7 on: July 24, 2022, 12:58:04 AM »
Israelis wear short sleeve button down shirts all the time
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #8 on: July 24, 2022, 01:21:27 AM »
Because most yeshivish males arms are gross to look at
tell me about....those completely tattooed arms are just gross. Crazy sick yeshivish people. Don't understand why they have such ugly arms.

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #9 on: July 24, 2022, 01:35:17 AM »
Because most yeshivish males arms are gross to look at

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #10 on: July 24, 2022, 01:51:33 AM »
Israelis wear short sleeve button down shirts all the time
and they rather go to the beach than to the pool
and they would wear sunglasses but wouldn't ride bikes in the streets

cultural differences

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #11 on: July 24, 2022, 02:00:40 AM »
Don't even try it.

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #12 on: July 24, 2022, 03:11:20 AM »
Because most yeshivish males arms are gross to look at

If this is correct then it isn’t a tzniyus problem :P
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #13 on: July 24, 2022, 10:00:07 AM »
Button down short sleeve shirts look weird.
They're worse than taboo - they're considered nerdy.
+100 This is the reason why. The more popular yeshivas, the guys are wearing the common names "brooks bros, CT, etc" and they dont have short sleeve (unless you are wearing it untucked, which the yeshiva guys arent). The smaller OOTish yeshivas you would find short sleeves more common as they dont care that much about their "style".

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Israelis wear short sleeve button down shirts all the time

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #14 on: July 24, 2022, 10:53:34 AM »
If this is correct then it isn’t a tzniyus problem :P
Ami covered up my elbows.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #15 on: July 24, 2022, 11:06:36 AM »
Ami covered up my elbows.
What was the reason behind that? (It's definitely not Halachic)
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #16 on: July 24, 2022, 11:09:01 AM »
What was the reason behind that? (It's definitely not Halachic)

Clearly you've never seen Dan's elbows.

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #17 on: July 24, 2022, 11:10:44 AM »
What was the reason behind that? (It's definitely not Halachic)
I mean, they also turned me DJT orange, which AFAIK isn't halachic either.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #18 on: July 24, 2022, 11:13:16 AM »
The lubavitcher rebbe only had short sleeves, all the mimush guys wear short sleaves

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #19 on: July 24, 2022, 11:18:26 AM »
What was the reason behind that? (It's definitely not Halachic)
M"B 2:1 implies that even a man cannot uncover higher than elbows.