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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #40 on: July 24, 2022, 12:44:58 PM »
I'm really surprised at you. Something things you are supposed to think but you are not supposed to say  :P
The craziness is why Chabad as whole and Lubavitchers are matzliach.
Or as it's called in Yiddish, l'chatchila ariber. We even named a song after it.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #41 on: July 24, 2022, 12:51:31 PM »

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #42 on: July 24, 2022, 12:57:53 PM »
Lubab?


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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #43 on: July 24, 2022, 01:00:31 PM »
Lubab?
Crazy how many have moved here this summer, but I can't believe how far away some are moving. That's what happens when they don't visit in the winter. Gonna be some big regrets in a few months when North Pole arrives.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #44 on: July 24, 2022, 01:02:33 PM »
i am not saying this is the reason but the following story may show there is some reason to wear long sleevs .
As a bochur i once spent around  a half an hour by r' chaim kanievsky zt"l one shabbos afternoon .During the time spent there i watched how r' chaim answered the many shailos posed to him. One of the people  came in a short sleeved t shirt .When they told r' chaim that he wants a bracha, R chaims response was "למה הוא ערום" (clearly reffering to the short sleeves. )

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #45 on: July 24, 2022, 01:11:00 PM »
IME the switch to long sleeves (unlike the switch to white button down) is not about religion, it's about short being nerdy.
the most non-megusham guys still wear short sleeves

(additional reason: if it's hot and sweaty, and I'm wearing a jacket, i'd much rather the cotton shirt sleeve against my skin than the polyester jacket sleeve liner)

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #46 on: July 24, 2022, 01:15:37 PM »
Lubab?
Crazy how many have moved here this summer, but I can't believe how far away some are moving. That's what happens when they don't visit in the winter. Gonna be some big regrets in a few months when North Pole arrives.
Local minyanim will naturally form if enough people move there.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #47 on: July 24, 2022, 01:16:18 PM »
i am not saying this is the reason but the following story may show there is some reason to wear long sleevs .
As a bochur i once spent around  a half an hour by r' chaim kanievsky zt"l one shabbos afternoon .During the time spent there i watched how r' chaim answered the many shailos posed to him. One of the people  came in a short sleeved t shirt .When they told r' chaim that he wants a bracha, R chaims response was "למה הוא ערום" (clearly reffering to the short sleeves. )

IINM RCK would comment even about children wearing short sleeves.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #49 on: July 24, 2022, 01:19:17 PM »
IME the switch to long sleeves (unlike the switch to white button down) is not about religion, it's about short being nerdy.
the most non-megusham guys still wear short sleeves

(additional reason: if it's hot and sweaty, and I'm wearing a jacket, i'd much rather the cotton shirt sleeve against my skin than the polyester jacket sleeve liner)

+1

My older son (as far as one can get from being megusham) wears short sleeves (and my 10yo) but myself and second and third son wear long sleeves.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #50 on: July 24, 2022, 01:23:49 PM »
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #51 on: July 24, 2022, 01:38:24 PM »
i am not saying this is the reason but the following story may show there is some reason to wear long sleevs .
As a bochur i once spent around  a half an hour by r' chaim kanievsky zt"l one shabbos afternoon .During the time spent there i watched how r' chaim answered the many shailos posed to him. One of the people  came in a short sleeved t shirt .When they told r' chaim that he wants a bracha, R chaims response was "למה הוא ערום" (clearly reffering to the short sleeves. )
Was it the short sleeve or the lack of jacket?
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #52 on: July 24, 2022, 01:44:04 PM »
It was clear to me at the time that he meant the sleeves

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #53 on: July 24, 2022, 01:49:41 PM »
Local minyanim will naturally form if enough people move there.
There is no there, they're just moving 1.5+ miles away in all directions without thinking through the winter ramifications of that.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #54 on: July 24, 2022, 02:21:02 PM »
There is no there, they're just moving 1.5+ miles away in all directions without thinking through the winter ramifications of that.

I had the same thoughts about people who moved 1 mile + away around here in the winter. Poor souls had no idea what kind of summer they were in for....
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #56 on: July 24, 2022, 04:02:47 PM »
*yet

Fair enough, but in the meantime I wonder how much regret sets in come December.
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #57 on: July 24, 2022, 04:19:44 PM »
Fair enough, but in the meantime I wonder how much regret sets in come December.

Kind of not checking a used car A/C when purchasing it in the winter. A car with no A/C is worthless!
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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #58 on: July 24, 2022, 04:23:45 PM »
Kind of not checking a used car A/C when purchasing it in the winter. A car with no A/C is worthless!

Young man, I'll have you know back in the day cars didn't have A/C's... In fact, we used to wear short sleeves to keep cool in the summer!

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Re: Why have short sleeves become taboo for Yeshivish males?
« Reply #59 on: July 24, 2022, 04:29:19 PM »
Young man, I'll have you know back in the day cars didn't have A/C's... In fact, we used to wear short sleeves to keep cool in the summer!

Who are you calling young man?
I've been waiting over 5 years with bated breath for someone to say that!
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