Need it for personal, and would like to make it for sale. Shutterfly can do regular paper that can be written on?
Not regular paper, but a bit thicker. I imagine it could be written on with a regular pen, but not about to try. Shutterfly is not cheap and does not give ISBNs.
booknookbiz also mentions Ingram, as did another poster here. Did you look into that? (From booknookbiz: "Your other option, of course, is go to Ingram and pay them their uploading fees, etc. and publish there and distribute here. As they charge for uploading AND for re-uploading, make sure that you get your files perfect, pre-uploading. Unlike Amazon, they don't support endless free revisions to published books/eBooks. At Ingram, if you make mistakes, you pay.")
How many pages will your book be? From my understanding, Amazon won't do hardcover for fewer than 75 pages. If your book will be less or were making it softcover, it might make sense to shrink it down to 8.5" wide. Shutterfly will do hardcover for 20 pages. No clue what Ingram would be.