It amazes me how people can air, on a public forum, their feelings about a fellow, frum person
Its one thing if you think the anonymous mother was correct, or want to comment on how shomrim dealt with the situation...
Is there a known heter to discuss your opinion on someone's social skill set? or insulting someone out because you disagree with how he dealt with a halachic situation?
After all everyone agrees he was trying to do the right thing. No one has suspicions (any longer) regarding his intent, and everyone knows his identity, so where is the basic respect for a frum person, let alone a talmid chchm?
Do we really publicly post disparaging comments about a specific person that might be hurtful to his family if they end up reading this (i'm assuming this fellow doesnt surf the web!)
I chose to post this here, because most ppl are "primarily" here for DD related material, and readers of YWN will not care what I have to say. Either way, I think people ought to think before posting L"H or Mtz"ShmRa