Ah, finally a question that can potentially lead somewhere productive.
what happens if you adopt a child and find out he's a mamzer?
What happens if you find out your child has a dormant deadly disease?
Do you you encourage your child to hide it and get married for the sake of being happy?
We can play the what if game till the end of time and toy with nisyonos.
What if your child decides they're in love with tree in your backyard