Author Topic: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men  (Read 29520 times)

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #60 on: August 16, 2023, 12:10:57 AM »
“Nigel notes that a young religious woman was sitting in 47B and was uncomfortable there between his son and another man, and she wound up trading with his son’s friend in 47E, so she sat in between Nigal and Neria while Nigel’s son and friend sat next to each other in the end. This happened without fuss or drama, just a normal seat trade.”
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #61 on: August 16, 2023, 12:12:21 AM »
Amazing job, @Dan, as always. Thank you for being such a proud, eloquent spokesperson for all of us.

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #62 on: August 16, 2023, 12:13:46 AM »
Tried clarifying the intention here, is that better?
Thanks! Better, though IMHO I still see more harm than good coming from the whole paragraph. I’d just add “Nigel notes that this was never about women” to the end of the previous paragraph and lose the rest of this one.

Just my two cents though.

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #64 on: August 16, 2023, 12:24:55 AM »
Can we get this sent over to Ben at onemileatatime?
Post comments and email authors on all the sites that covered it.
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #65 on: August 16, 2023, 12:25:50 AM »
Added some additional context as per @Yehuda57's suggestions.
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #66 on: August 16, 2023, 12:33:37 AM »
Just last week I was flying El Al on a maybe half full flight. Somehow, I ended up being seated in a row by the window with a secular Israeli woman in the aisle and another guy in the middle (probably the only row that actually had three people in it). Immediately after boarding finished, she started asking the guy in the middle if he wanted to move, then after he refused started asking me to move. Maybe I should have recorded that incident…
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #67 on: August 16, 2023, 12:45:11 AM »
Can we get this sent over to Ben at onemileatatime?

He updated the story, but left out that she agreed to move at first (until she saw his "yamika")

Also, this line makes it clear that he is missing the context of the anti-Charedi incitement going on in Israel -

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I’d be surprised if this woman just started yelling “discrimination” for absolutely no reason.

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #68 on: August 16, 2023, 12:45:52 AM »
He updated the story, but left out that she agreed to move at first (until she saw his "yamika")

Also, this line makes it clear that he is missing the context of the anti-Charedi incitement going on in Israel -

So comment there with the DD post for context and email him for a correction.
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #69 on: August 16, 2023, 12:59:45 AM »
So comment there with the DD post for context and email him for a correction.

I commented on OMAAT twice already. He’s apparently not letting comments through.

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #70 on: August 16, 2023, 03:00:25 AM »
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #78 on: August 16, 2023, 11:33:18 AM »
FWIW, I think it is entirely possible she thought he asked her to move because she was a woman, and once that narrative took hold in her head, she dug her heels in and still has no idea what or why he was asking. IOW, it is not a he said/she said and that one of them is lying, but both are telling the truth. Except her "truth" is based on something she concocted in her own mind based on preconceived expectations.

I really hope there is video. I wonder how long it will be until airlines start installing cameras on planes.

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Re: United Crew Shames Woman Who Won’t Move Seats Due To Demand From Men
« Reply #79 on: August 16, 2023, 11:33:44 AM »
Driving home now, but talked to another pax in 47J and hoping I can talk to 47E.

Any edits to this before publishing? Or anything else to ask Adina?

https://www.dansdeals.com/points-travel/airlines/united/eyewitness-shares-saw-happen-united-flight-85-no-discrimination/
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