just to clarify that i'm answering two seperate different questions:
@Young explorer you are refering to Lag Baomer?
@smaxber you are asking about your sons birthday on a diferent date?
public trans is 2:30-2:45
private car is 2:15 or so...
both w/o traffic
with regard to shabbos/lag baomer... you dont need to be IN meron for shabbos to make it for the hadlaka... anywhere in the galil should be fine. Think tzfas, tveria, the many small yishuvim walkable ish to meron, even karmiel, maalot, afula, nof hagalil, and Chaifa.
Its still a few months out, but if the security situation would be the same as today there's absolutly no way they will allow any sort of large gathering. (It's much, much easier for them to do it legaly than during corona - they can just declare large swaths of the galil a closed military zone - and stop busses dozens of kilometers from meron.)