I feel like people are talking over each other here and talking about two different things.
To throw in my 2 cents here. Any wine connoisseur will cringe when someone satisfies himself with cheap, flavored wine that has nothing to do with the essence of wine and is just a cheap imitation using strong additives to give flavor that has nothing to do with the real thing and does not have any of the refined ness of real wine. He will cringe even more when he loudly proclaims that this is much better and economical than real, aged wine and there is no need for the real wine.
When outsiders will label them as drunkards and perpetuators of ancient evil vices and attempt to ban any use of wine, you can bet that the wine connoisseur and the one who is satisfied with cheap wine-look-alike will join arms together to fight against those who seek to besmirch them and will appreciate the presence of one another, even though the connoisseur feels (correctly) that the imitator is totally wrong with his choice of wine (knowingly or unknowingly, from lack of knowledge and finer taste).
Happens to be, I know nothing about wine, so forgive me if the analogy is not great, but you get the point.
The Jews who knows nothing about Judaism besides for their pride in the state of Israel, and are satisfied with being praised for a good performance at a show that we want nothing to do with, yet are proud that they are representing the state of Israel, which they know as being Jewish, even though we know that such a show is antithetical to Judaism and is exactly opposite of what we want to be proud of as Jews, the fact that they are proud of being Jews despite the hate directed at them because they are Jews, is still something that for them they should be proud of that they view themselves as Jews who are connected to each other. Yes, we know that this is not what being Jewish means, and it is Boiros Nishbiurim, and we know it is far from the real good stuff in life, but from their perspective they are proud to be "making us Jews proud" even though we know it has nothing to do with Judaism. They still feel a responsibility and a connection to us as Jews, and maybe we can use that opportunity to give them some tasters in real good wine.