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Horrific Mental Health Related Tragedy In Lakewood
« on: June 25, 2024, 05:26:29 PM »
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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #1 on: June 25, 2024, 06:06:52 PM »
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Spill the story so it can be debated, lessons learned, or just plain hock, or don't bother sharing at all.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #5 on: June 25, 2024, 07:08:51 PM »
They took down the story
Mind numbing tragedy just based on what was briefly posted. I understand that the story and details will eventually get out but what would possibly be the uae of posting it on TLS?

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #6 on: June 25, 2024, 07:19:44 PM »
Mind numbing tragedy just based on what was briefly posted. I understand that the story and details will eventually get out but what would possibly be the uae of posting it on TLS?
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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #7 on: June 25, 2024, 07:41:18 PM »
What's the harm?
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Just imagine it was someone you were very close to.
Would you want it to be the talk of the town?

Similar feeling I get when a hatazala ambulance pulls up and the whole neighborhood goes to check it out

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #8 on: June 25, 2024, 07:45:28 PM »
What's the harm?
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I don't any details to know if there is something to be careful about. If it was an urgent PSA I can't imagine it would be taken down.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #9 on: June 25, 2024, 08:23:18 PM »
I don't any details to know if there is something to be careful about. If it was an urgent PSA I can't imagine it would be taken down.
The PSA is to take mental illness seriously and make sure the mother has the support and intervention they need.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #10 on: June 25, 2024, 09:22:05 PM »
The PSA is to take mental illness seriously and make sure the mother has the support and intervention they need.
I agree. Its been discussed multiple time across multiple treads. About mental health, awareness, going proper help. Its sad how with each case shoved under the rug, another one is unfortunately in the making. The answer, idk. But making going for help should be normal and should be written about in all the papers.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #11 on: June 25, 2024, 09:38:56 PM »
What's the harm?
Use - to be careful.
Apparently I was looking at the wrong story. I saw an article about a child that died from being left in a hot car.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #12 on: June 25, 2024, 09:42:01 PM »
I agree. Its been discussed multiple time across multiple treads. About mental health, awareness, going proper help. Its sad how with each case shoved under the rug, another one is unfortunately in the making. The answer, idk. But making going for help should be normal and should be written about in all the papers.
I don’t know the current story but it is possible for people to have support and help and still not be well. Mental illness is complex and not everyone or every situation responds to treatment.
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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #13 on: June 25, 2024, 09:54:21 PM »
I don’t know the current story but it is possible for people to have support and help and still not be well. Mental illness is complex and not everyone or every situation responds to treatment.
And if that's the case, then as sad as it sounds they should be put into a mental hospital. I don't think everything has a cure, but more awareness will help people understand that the same way people die from cancer (even with treatment) some peoples mental illness is too strong for them to live unsupervised.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #14 on: June 25, 2024, 10:03:37 PM »
And if that's the case, then as sad as it sounds they should be put into a mental hospital. I don't think everything has a cure, but more awareness will help people understand that the same way people die from cancer (even with treatment) some peoples mental illness is too strong for them to live unsupervised.
People are put into psychiatric hospitals all the time. Do you know for a fact that this situation was due to “pushing things under the rug? It is incredibly painful for family and friends to read and hear this kind of talk, especially since we don’t know the details.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #15 on: June 25, 2024, 10:27:47 PM »
Apparently I was looking at the wrong story. I saw an article about a child that died from being left in a hot car.

It'd back up
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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #16 on: June 25, 2024, 11:28:55 PM »
No real reason to take it down. Everyone will hear all the details sooner or later. So terribly sad.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #17 on: June 25, 2024, 11:43:41 PM »
No real reason to take it down. Everyone will hear all the details sooner or later. So terribly sad.

It’s impossible to bury a story like this, double homicide will always be much more than just local township news. A number of articles have already started coming out.
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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #18 on: June 26, 2024, 12:07:25 AM »
Weird thing - if you look at the house on Google maps, it's blurred out. None of the other houses on the block are blurred.

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Re: Horrific Tragedy In Lakewood
« Reply #19 on: June 26, 2024, 01:12:47 AM »
People are put into psychiatric hospitals all the time. Do you know for a fact that this situation was due to “pushing things under the rug? It is incredibly painful for family and friends to read and hear this kind of talk, especially since we don’t know the details.
I heard from both a relative and a neighbor that she seemed perfectly fine even to those close to her as recently as this week.

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