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[JTZ]

Lol, you guys both worded your comments in a way that specifies the wife being the OTD one.

Would you expect anything different from CBC? 

[JTZ]

Could easily be a guy who does the cooking and then she can't eat in her own kitchen..

Why is that?

[skyguy918]

Why is that?

If the OTD spouse 'ruins' the utensils or the oven by not following the milk/meat rules, bringing in non-kosher items, etc.

[yuneeq]

If the OTD spouse 'ruins' the utensils or the oven by not following the milk/meat rules, bringing in non-kosher items, etc.

...and even bishul akum according to some depending on the circumstances.

[JTZ]

If the OTD spouse 'ruins' the utensils or the oven by not following the milk/meat rules, bringing in non-kosher items, etc.

If the guy is doing the cooking then all she would be doing is the eating. No problem then, correct?

[yuneeq]

If the guy is doing the cooking then all she would be doing is the eating. No problem then, correct?

You're not following- if the guy isn't religious she would have a problem eating his food.
And vice versa.

[skyguy918]

If the guy is doing the cooking then all she would be doing is the eating. No problem then, correct?

But how can the religious spouse that the OTD spouse  is not messing around in the kitchen without the other's knowledge?

[username]

Lol, you guys both worded your comments in a way that specifies the wife being the OTD one.

I didnt understand Moshe123 like that , but whatever...

[JTZ]

You're not following- if the guy isn't religious she would have a problem eating his food.
And vice versa.

You sure it is me not following? 

Lets put it this way with no man/women. The religious person is doing the cooking. Is the OTD person allowed to eat in the kitchen the food the religious person cooked?

[dealfinder85]

You sure it is me not following? 

Lets put it this way with no man/women. The religious person is doing the cooking. Is the OTD person allowed to eat in the kitchen the food the religious person cooked?

yes

[David Smith]

You sure it is me not following? 

Lets put it this way with no man/women. The religious person is doing the cooking. Is the OTD person allowed to eat in the kitchen the food the religious person cooked?

Sure.

[Dr Moose]

yes

Sure.

But not the opposite. If the OTD is cooking in kitchen, the significant other can no longer eat anything that was prepared in that kitchen.

[dealfinder85]

But not the opposite. If the OTD is cooking in kitchen, the significant other can no longer eat anything that was prepared in that kitchen.

not such a simple statement at all

[aygart]

not such a simple statement at all

True but that is the question being discussed.

[yuneeq]

http://www.inc.com/walter-chen/pok-mon-go-is-driving-insane-amounts-of-sales-at-small-local-businesses-here-s-h.html

[thaber]

I am familiar with several mixed marriages, both ways.  In all nidda is kept and the non religious spouse is respectful of the religious one (which is why they're still happily married).  They also trust each other.  Which is why they eat each other's food.
In almost all cases there is no halachic problem trusting them to do as they say and there is no bishul akum.  These would not be considered מחלל שבת בפרהסיא

[henche]

I'm familiar with a marriage where both sides think it is a mixed marriage, but really neither is frum.

Basically, each one thinks they are not frum but the other is, and are afraid to discuss it.  But they both told me.  I figure better not to tell each about the spouse, since this way they're still keeping a kosher home and raising their kids frum.

[churnbabychurn]

I am familiar with several mixed marriages, both ways.  In all nidda is kept and the non religious spouse is respectful of the religious one (which is why they're still happily married).  They also trust each other.  Which is why they eat each other's food.
In almost all cases there is no halachic problem trusting them to do as they say and there is no bishul akum.  These would not be considered מחלל שבת בפרהסיא

How is she neeman for sefirah, tevilah etc??

[yochiek93]

How is she neeman for sefirah, tevilah etc??

Who says she is the non frum one?

[churnbabychurn]

I'm familiar with a marriage where both sides think it is a mixed marriage, but really neither is frum.

Basically, each one thinks they are not frum but the other is, and are afraid to discuss it.  But they both told me.  I figure better not to tell each about the spouse, since this way they're still keeping a kosher home and raising their kids frum.

Guess what, the kids are also hiding it!