Have some rachmonus on those who didn't grow up with the same verbiage as you
I'd like to learn the maamar, can I handle it on my own? where can I find it?
Anti-keli is my own invented term..
But basically on RH/YK it's decided how much you'll earn, how healthy you'll be, etc. But that's stuck in the higher realms of the world (Atzilus, etc)
On every day we draw down a portion of that koach into poel (from Atzilus into asiya gashmi) through keilim, by being a good jew, davening, mitzvos, having a job that lets you serve hashem, etc.
By not being a good jew that koach remains stuck above. Or if one has a fixed income it can still be affected negatively (catastrophic event) or positively.
I just find it immensely ironic that one can believe in a Gd that runs every aspect of the world and yet believe that wearing a yarmulkah to work could fall into the same "anti-keli" category as not putting on tefilin for a day, something that severs the bonds you and your creator.
Hence, why stop there? Let's make other holy things or halachos into anti-kelis while we're at it...
Can we get a full list of halachos in shulchan aruch that are anti-kelis?
Shaking hands.
Yarmulkas.
Not shaving.
Keeping kosher?
Don't forget Shabbos.
May as well sleep with the woman recruiters like the non-frum guys do.
What about sleeping with the male recruiter? That will score you even more points with the firm...