My friend,
So you know clearly know what hashem wants form us? based on what? YOUR intrepretation of chazal?
You claim that the purpose of some mitzvos is just to "create a certain feeling in us" are you joking? gimme a break. Yes there is taamei hamitzvos but there is way way more to any mitzvah besides one of the taamim.
BTW where did you get that, that the reason for tzitzis is to create a feeling? do you say krias shma? is to remeber the mitzvos only a feeling?
where did you get that in regards to minhagim?
where did you get that in regards to a (deffinitly only a d'rabonon) kippah? deffinitly not from shulcha aruch. unless you call to remind you of yiras hashem and G-D only a feeling.
You sound reform where it's all about "feeling". especially with your need to belittle the C"C to put on a closer level to us.
You almost sound like your reading alot of slifkin trash without learning the fundamentals.
Jee whiz, you're parsing e/t I say, even though we're probably in 99% agreement.
1) I'm not basing anything on MY interpretation of chazal. It's on what they wrote. (Unless you think that we're on too low a level to understand anything written in the gemara, rishonim, achronim, or artscroll books)
2) You're right, 'feeling' is the wrong work. It's too weak and wishy washy. They create a certain 'state-of-mind' for us to be in. This in meant to influence us in all of our daily actions, to make out lives more God-centric.
3) One of the main purposes of tzitzit is to assist us in remembering mitzvot, ie, a state of mind. Similar to kippa, although that's for Hashems presence.
4) I never wrote that this 'state of mind' is the only reason for mitzvot. However, I think it's probably the most 'practical' reason for us in our daily lives. The hashpa they may have in the upper realms is operating on another plane altogether. And the schar we receive will typically serve me in good stead in the after-life (although the torah does explicitly say that some will have an influence in our current life, such as arichus yamim)
5) I'll pass on the personal insults, it would remove me from my proper 'state of mind'.
I would advise learning the sefer hachinuch, or the Rambam's sefer hamitzvos. I have gained a lot from them.