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who gives the ring?
« on: May 20, 2012, 12:18:08 PM »
Just wondering, at a same-sex wedding, who gives the ring for whom?? How do they decide who's the bride and who's the groom?
Anyone knows?
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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #1 on: May 20, 2012, 12:21:24 PM »
They give each other a ring just like any normal wedding. Why does there have to be a bride and groom? Canít you have two brides or two grooms?
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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #2 on: May 20, 2012, 12:40:03 PM »
Meshug, do you miss your rest?  :-) just joking, but ...

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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #3 on: May 20, 2012, 12:53:43 PM »
I'm guessing you've never been to a non-orthodox wedding. The bride gives the groom a ring, and the groom gives the bride a ring.

Now as for halacha, this would really complicate the gemara in Kiddushin about nasan hu vamra hi, nasna hi vamar hu etc...... :)     

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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #4 on: May 20, 2012, 12:59:15 PM »
Lol... Would be fun to learn more about the halachic issues surrounding such a wedding...
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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #5 on: May 20, 2012, 01:00:39 PM »
Lol... Would be fun to learn more about the halachic issues surrounding such a wedding...

I'm prettty sure Halacha is pretty clear on this one... Lol!

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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #6 on: May 20, 2012, 01:46:24 PM »
clueless...

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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #7 on: May 20, 2012, 01:49:11 PM »
Would they both have to write each other a ketubah? ::)

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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #8 on: May 20, 2012, 02:00:16 PM »
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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #9 on: May 20, 2012, 02:39:21 PM »
@meshug... really now! don't you have better topics to discuss ?

maybe give citi a call etc.
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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #10 on: May 20, 2012, 02:45:13 PM »
ur gross

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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #11 on: May 20, 2012, 02:48:42 PM »
I love my new nickname: meshug....
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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #12 on: May 20, 2012, 02:53:07 PM »
I love my new nickname: meshug....
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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #13 on: May 20, 2012, 03:53:55 PM »
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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #14 on: May 20, 2012, 04:03:07 PM »
I love you

So you'll give the ring then?

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Re: who gives the ring?
« Reply #15 on: May 21, 2012, 12:23:16 AM »
Now as for halacha, this would really complicate the gemara in Kiddushin about nasan hu vamra hi, nasna hi vamar hu etc...... :)   
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