which Sefer ?
What's the source for never posting the author?
You're the signature guy
Never?
Might be context dependent. The Aruch Hashulchans wife wore the pants in the house so to speak. She ran the fabric business; her husband didn’t even know how to get to the store. It may have seemed preposterous to ask her to pour him his cup, but actually one of the chores a women is mechuyav to do for her husband is to be מוזגת לו את הכוס so it’s hard to imagine the Aruch Hashulchan was generalizing a minhag for all future generations that is contrary to a משנה that is brought down as halacha pesukah.
Maybe the source has some sort of guidelines. But seriously, all these quotes without knowing who they're from is meaningless.
Which quote do you not know whom it’s from?
Now I do. But why the need to get asked and answered?
מטעמים כמוסים
Like not being mekarev the geula?
Who? Send him to me
We can make a whole thread of interesting lines in the sifrei Chasam sofer.
Nee, feel free to share.