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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #20 on: July 05, 2012, 01:16:43 PM »
I hope for u he is not already a DDF member and reading this thread!
Lol :)

I actually have gone away for a week when my daughter was 8 months old. But B"H she is good, and we had an amazing time.

This past winter she was 14 mnths... We left her behind

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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #21 on: July 05, 2012, 01:34:14 PM »
Lol :)

I actually have gone away for a week when my daughter was 8 months old. But B"H she is good, and we had an amazing time.

This past winter she was 14 mnths... We left her behind

where did you go with an 8 month old?

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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #22 on: July 05, 2012, 03:43:16 PM »
where did you go with an 8 month old?
Orlando

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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #23 on: July 05, 2012, 04:00:09 PM »
I have a cute fellow here: chaimMayer.
glad you appreciate :D

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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #24 on: July 05, 2012, 04:02:16 PM »
i thought once you have older kids it works.... yikes :(

Baruch Hashem! On ddf we sometimes need to reframe. Vacations are great but not the point of life. (I think discussed here somewhere, how ppl NEED vacations...) Baruch Hashem I have kids!! I can be wistful and wishful but that is not the goal of life.
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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #25 on: July 05, 2012, 04:19:35 PM »
Baruch Hashem! On ddf we sometimes need to reframe. Vacations are great but not the point of life. (I think discussed here somewhere, how ppl NEED vacations...) Baruch Hashem I have kids!! I can be wistful and wishful but that is not the goal of life.
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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #26 on: July 05, 2012, 05:38:32 PM »
It's been discussed here before. I think that moish summed it up best -

thanks for the shout out :)

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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #27 on: July 05, 2012, 06:17:21 PM »
I just drove cross-country with 3 kids.
I'm not sure I would call that a vacation though...

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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #28 on: July 05, 2012, 06:22:29 PM »
i probably wouldnt classify it as a vacation even without kids...

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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #29 on: July 05, 2012, 06:32:31 PM »
Once your kids get older you find out you can have both. Kids with you and a great vacation.
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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #30 on: July 05, 2012, 06:35:58 PM »
Once your kids get older you find out you can have both. Kids with you and a great vacation.
around here "vacation" is pretty much defined as a (free) stay in a 5 star hotel without kids :)

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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #31 on: July 05, 2012, 07:58:38 PM »
around here "vacation" is pretty much defined as a (free) stay in a 5 star hotel without kids :)
That might be true but also around here family is one of the most important things if your life.
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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #32 on: July 05, 2012, 08:11:32 PM »
That might be true but also around here family is one of the most important things if your life.

Hence the need for a vacation :P
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Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #33 on: July 05, 2012, 08:42:19 PM »
Let's not make an agreement out of nothing.
Everyone agrees that family is the most important thing.
Everyone agrees that spending private time with your wife is the most important thing

When you're with kids it's not private time. It's family time :)
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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #34 on: July 05, 2012, 08:47:28 PM »
Everyone agrees that family is the most important thing.
Everyone agrees that spending private time with your wife is the most important thing
Can't have it both ways.  :)
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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #35 on: July 05, 2012, 08:53:21 PM »
No!
Not at the same time.
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Re: Does Your Baby Take Part In Your Vacation?
« Reply #36 on: July 08, 2012, 08:28:13 AM »
 
No!
Not at the same time.

IME you are right many times, but it is possible, it can be done. Maybe by making a more relaxed schedule of activities etc. so you won't be knocked out, and put the kids to sleep early and enjoy a nice quiet walk. Sometimes while the kids are running around, you can have time together.

But, it is not the same thing.
« Last Edit: July 08, 2012, 08:31:29 AM by shmuelb »
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