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Jewelry
www.Classiquepearls.com HT DavidMal
Perfume
Spa Day
Trip or Night getaway
Something Nice for the Seder Table or Shabbos Table
GC at Favorite Clothing Store or Luxury Brand
If she tends not to have help for cleaning, obviously someone to help her clean
Books
(I know my mother appreciates those.)


Don'ts
gym membership:Don't buy your wife a gym membership or any work out device. Ever. Like ever ever. Even if she asks or begs for it.
Drug store candy: If you are going to go and buy her some sort of dessert, don't bother going to your local CVS or Walmart for that if you don't intend to get yelled at.
Items that need fixing in the house: Don't buy your wife a washing machine, dish washer, vacuum cleaner bc its needed in the house. Would you have not gotten it if it wasn't her birthday around the corner?
Call your wife female spouse.

Do's
Jewelry : Diamonds ALWAYS work.
Call her Female Spouse. The capital letters make all the difference.
Pokemon Go She probably hasn't had a chance to download it
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Gift for Female Spouse?
« on: August 22, 2012, 05:59:59 PM »
Friend needs help with ideas.

I can't help him because I'm terrible at this kind of stuff.

Are you? :P
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #1 on: August 22, 2012, 06:02:27 PM »
Anything household will be nice..
electronics, cookbook, nice piece of fake/real jewelry, perfume...
how come i can think of so many things????
Men are so much harder to get things for, woman are so simple. :) :)

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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #2 on: August 22, 2012, 06:03:03 PM »
Jewelry.
End of story.
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #3 on: August 22, 2012, 06:06:27 PM »
this is one the things on my list.(there are more/better sites like that ,just an example)
i would also give a check
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p.s. may i just ask why you chose 'female spouse' instead of wife ? sounds disghusting to me
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #4 on: August 22, 2012, 06:06:34 PM »
Every case is so different, hard to give advise on this without: 1)knowing the personality of the miss. 2) know what she already have, 3) know what's missing her.
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #5 on: August 22, 2012, 06:09:42 PM »
jewelry

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Re: Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #6 on: August 22, 2012, 06:10:56 PM »
Jewelry.
End of story.
+1, if it's in the budget. and even for cheaper you can find things that are nice. Or a watch
Other ideas:
Day in the spa
Ice cream maker
Painting for the house
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #7 on: August 22, 2012, 06:23:58 PM »
Thanks, all.

Jewelry is so hard to pick, even if it might be the best choice. Also, it can get expensive.

Things for the house is not a bad idea, a la ice cream maker, painting, etc.

Keep 'em coming!


p.s. may i just ask why you chose 'female spouse' instead of wife ? sounds disghusting to me

I had written "Anniversary Gift for Spouse?" and realized it was unclear if I was talking about male or female, so I added female.
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Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #8 on: August 22, 2012, 06:24:40 PM »
+1, if it's in the budget. and even for cheaper you can find things that are nice. Or a watch
Other ideas:
Day in the spa
Ice cream maker
Painting for the house
Trip to mle

My phone (is what my wife wants) In order to get off DDF lol. :-)

Jewelry
My wife love tk bake so - cookbooks
Maybe there is something she wanted but a drop over the budget
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #9 on: August 22, 2012, 06:26:44 PM »
Tell him no matter how bad he is at coming up with ideas that he should do it himself. His spouse will know it was his idea and it will mean more to her. I know it sounds corny but it is true!
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #10 on: August 22, 2012, 06:28:11 PM »
Does your wife wear cheep weekday jewelry?
try the clearance section on target.com, Kohls or the like. Get her like 10 $10 pieces. My wife lives the stuff I got her from there
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #11 on: August 22, 2012, 06:32:33 PM »
i wouldn't put jewelry first on my list honestly...
I like things that my husband notices that i wanted and than gets that for me.. (even if i dont want it anymore haha)


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« Reply #12 on: August 22, 2012, 06:35:57 PM »
i wouldn't put jewelry first on my list honestly...
I like things that my husband notices that i wanted and than gets that for me.. (even if i dont want it anymore haha)
That's only if there are things u wanted what if he didn't know of anything. why wouldn't this OPs friend just get what the wife wants. So I inferred that he was no idea so therefore the next best thing is jewelry or housewares maybe,

What would u say?
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #13 on: August 22, 2012, 06:40:51 PM »
That's only if there are things u wanted what if he didn't know of anything. why wouldn't this OPs friend just get what the wife wants. So I inferred that he was no idea so therefore the next best thing is jewelry or housewares maybe,

What would u say?
Ya an idea would be any of those- but from those things he shud b able to find sumthin that she had wanted (if he thinks hard enuf..)

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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #14 on: August 22, 2012, 06:43:24 PM »
Thanks, all.

Jewelry is so hard to pick, even if it might be the best choice. Also, it can get expensive.
Doesn't have to be expensive jewelry.
There's nice stuff on V-P today in lots of price ranges, plus $25 off with Citi AMEX.
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #15 on: August 22, 2012, 07:36:56 PM »
A new vacuum cleaner ;)?

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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #16 on: August 22, 2012, 08:08:17 PM »
She might apreciate anything you get her but what the women really want is jewlery like dan said. They usually also want something that people notice...
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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #17 on: August 22, 2012, 08:08:34 PM »
I like things that my husband notices that i wanted and than gets that for me.. (even if i dont want it anymore haha)

Ding ding ding. Apparently the "female spouse" has mentioned she wanted a couple things.

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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #18 on: August 22, 2012, 08:42:18 PM »
great to hear that was solved fast...
now onto the husband bday
what to get him again this yr!!!!!!! (i made a thread last yr lol)

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Re: Anniversary Gift for Female Spouse?
« Reply #19 on: August 22, 2012, 08:50:52 PM »
great to hear that was solved fast...
now onto the husband bday
what to get him again this yr!!!!!!! (i made a thread last yr lol)
Anyone ever heard the tape "A Time To Laugh"? What did the "Rebbi" suggest to the woman who wanted to buy her husband a present..
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