So you're asking us to help someone who wants to have kids, but doesn't want to spend his on money on it after having agreed to do that?
Disgusting.
$1 says he lives in Lakewood.
you just lost a dollar.
1) I didn't ask you to help him, i asked for a simple piece of information on his behalf.
2)not that i'm here to defend my friends ethics, but when he chose to have the surgery he was assured by the doctor that referred him that it would be fully covered, the specifics of the surgery seem to be somewhat controversial and thereby he was dumped into this mess unexpected.
3)furthermore, this isn't a matter of how he chooses to spend his money, perhaps i wasn't clear, he BARELY has the money to cover his bills, were he to do so he would be literally penniless.
I think it is disgusting to judge someone you don't know, who is in a situation you know nothing about, and then to mirror your own presumed projection on an entire town.
shame on you.