it doesnt make a difference what you do in your everyday life. having kids kvetching and crying on your head is NOT a vacation
I guess we'll have to agree to disagree.
Granted, it's 100% of a vacation when you have the kids, but being able to unplug from the real world for a while is still a vacation in my book --even if I need to deal with kvetching kids.
I've been on many trips that I would agree with you and call them family trips, not vacations. But I've also been on trips with the kids which I would certainly classify as vacations.