Author Topic: The truth about children - Warning: Controversial (Read 121029 times)

real-brisker · « **Reply #480 on:** September 04, 2013, 12:32:42 AM »

CV +1,000

PlatinumGuy · « **Reply #481 on:** September 24, 2013, 10:45:18 AM »

Looks like theres an entire kindergarten there.

Yeki89 · « **Reply #482 on:** September 24, 2013, 12:55:53 PM »

Quote from: meshugener on September 03, 2013, 10:25:06 PM

What I don't understand, why would a 23yr old boy rather date an 18yr old girl?
Do you want to marry someone less mature than you are?
(CCMIIW, but isn't that the core of the problem?)

In my circles, the boy and the girl are usually in the same age range.

Because the girls are more "mature" then the boys. or that is what they claim.
My wife is 6 month younger then me.

Ergel · « **Reply #483 on:** September 24, 2013, 01:30:46 PM »

Quote from: Yeki89 on September 24, 2013, 12:55:53 PM

Because the girls are more "mature" then the boys. or that is what they claim.
My wife is 6 month younger then me.

They want a piece if putty to mold in their image

meshugener · « **Reply #484 on:** September 24, 2013, 02:53:38 PM »

So the boys are looking for older girls because the girls claim they're more mature?

sky121 · « **Reply #485 on:** September 24, 2013, 03:11:31 PM »

I wouldn't say that girls are more mature than boys but at the age many start dating (around 18) I do find guys tend to be less mature than girls around that age.

Meanwhile it's not always the case obviously and there are plenty of girls married to guys their age or younger.

plainbachur · « **Reply #486 on:** September 24, 2013, 04:18:05 PM »

Quote from: meshugener on September 03, 2013, 10:25:06 PM

What I don't understand, why would a 23yr old boy rather date an 18yr old girl?
Do you want to marry someone less mature than you are?
(CCMIIW, but isn't that the core of the problem?)

In my circles, the boy and the girl are usually in the same age range.

were is your circles?

meshugener · « **Reply #487 on:** September 24, 2013, 04:21:28 PM »

Meshugeners?

Myccrabbi · « **Reply #488 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:46:45 PM »

So ur saying its normel or not?!

SamKey · « **Reply #489 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:58:09 PM »

Quote from: Myccrabbi on September 24, 2013, 05:46:45 PM

So ur saying its normel or not?!

He's hassidic

Myccrabbi · « **Reply #490 on:** September 24, 2013, 05:58:52 PM »

I think shidduch is from heaven and not preset age similarity or gap now I am not saying that a 25 should date a 80 year old but wat I am saying is that its no big deal older or younger or same and they all have their pros n cons

Myccrabbi · « **Reply #491 on:** September 24, 2013, 06:10:09 PM »

Any comments?

sky121 · « **Reply #492 on:** September 24, 2013, 06:21:59 PM »

Quote from: Myccrabbi on September 24, 2013, 05:58:52 PM

I think shidduch is from heaven and not preset age similarity or gap now I am not saying that a 25 should date a 80 year old but wat I am saying is that its no big deal older or younger or same and they all have their pros n cons

Everything is from heaven. That being said if G-d decided your bashert was an older girl and you say no .......

I guess at the end of the day I feel that people need to be a bit more open minded. There are so many "rules" that seem a bit silly.