Actually to give some background, my wife is in school day and night so I am Tatty, Mommy, full time earner, diaper changer, morning clothes dresser, breakfast feeder, brown bag luncher, (for Mommy too) ponytail-maker, supper cooker, bather, pajama dresser, tantrum consoler, bedtime story teller, full time house keeper, laundry do-er, (night Seder chavrusa), among others.
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I don't think I've given my wife enough credit here. She works like crazy, is going through a very intense schooling and still does a ton around the house, makes a great Shabbos every week, makes food all the time and takes care of our daughter whenever she can.
It would be great to do a 'trip report' of how we were able to get through five years of dual schooling, working full time and still taking some incredible trips together.
I don't think every mother should be working but if she is anyway, it could be really worthwhile to put in a few hard years of work and end up with a better job for life.