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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #60 on: March 21, 2016, 09:23:17 AM »
that happened with rav elyashiv zatza"l at the gerrer rebbes sons wedding

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They brought him a cup of water.

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #61 on: March 21, 2016, 10:07:29 AM »
By my sister's wedding.
I was the MC and my uncle was bugging out on me to make sure he doesn't get a brocho (he is a tough business man and hates the kovod) I ended up calling him up with the title Harav hagaon and with a fat shlitah and the end of his name.
He walked up to the chupah and punched me in my stomach before he started the brocho and my mom banned me from ever being a MC again. But it was worth every second

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #62 on: March 21, 2016, 10:21:32 AM »
By my sister's wedding.
I was the MC and my uncle was bugging out on me to make sure he doesn't get a brocho (he is a tough business man and hates the kovod) I ended up calling him up with the title Harav hagaon and with a fat shlitah and the end of his name.
He walked up to the chupah and punched me in my stomach before he started the brocho and my mom banned me from ever being a MC again. But it was worth every second

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #63 on: March 21, 2016, 10:59:27 AM »
old hangup rabbonim have with the 'minhag' of giving sidur kidushin to roshei yeshiva
I've heard that before - even saw it once in print from a shul Rov. But it sounds like you're saying the reason would be that the R"Y are more likely to mess up, which makes no sense. At this point, it's probably more R"Y getting siddur kiddushin than anything else, so they have plenty of experience. The reason this shul Rov gave had more to do with people not having enough of a kesher to their shul Rov anymore - which is also baloney IMO, because of course the R"Y that the chosson spends all his time around for a few years will have a bigger kesher than the shul Rov.

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #64 on: March 21, 2016, 11:05:26 AM »
By my sister's wedding.
I was the MC and my uncle was bugging out on me to make sure he doesn't get a brocho (he is a tough business man and hates the kovod) I ended up calling him up with the title Harav hagaon and with a fat shlitah and the end of his name.
He walked up to the chupah and punched me in my stomach before he started the brocho and my mom banned me from ever being a MC again. But it was worth every second
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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #65 on: March 21, 2016, 11:12:04 AM »
I've heard that before - even saw it once in print from a shul Rov. But it sounds like you're saying the reason would be that the R"Y are more likely to mess up, which makes no sense. At this point, it's probably more R"Y getting siddur kiddushin than anything else, so they have plenty of experience. The reason this shul Rov gave had more to do with people not having enough of a kesher to their shul Rov anymore - which is also baloney IMO, because of course the R"Y that the chosson spends all his time around for a few years will have a bigger kesher than the shul Rov.
R' Chaim Kreisworth Zatzal was makpid on this in Antwerp, that he got the siddur kidushin not the Chossons RY

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #66 on: March 21, 2016, 11:21:01 AM »
I think the origin is based on the tradition of the wedding being made by the kallah's father, so naturally he would select his rov rather than the chosson's rosh yeshiva. The wedding would be held in the kallah's town so the rov of the town was probably the only one on hand to perform the wedding anyway.
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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #67 on: March 21, 2016, 12:02:45 PM »
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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #68 on: March 21, 2016, 12:06:35 PM »
I heard a story where a highly respected Rosh yeshiva was doing a chuppa, and they finished the whole thing and we're already dancing back down the aisle when he realized they had forgotten to give the ring (!)... Kudos to him that he halted it all and made them go back...
That makes zero sense. The kiddushin is one of the main parts of the chuppah ceremony, (and the main part lehalacha). They called up the eidei kiddushin and somehow forgot to do the kiddushin itself? 
Who do you think you are fooling? You think you are going to pull a quick one on your Creator? Good luck with that.
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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #69 on: March 21, 2016, 12:08:22 PM »
That makes zero sense. The kiddushin is one of the main parts of the chuppah.
Not so crazy. He had a checklist in his head and omitted one item.
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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #70 on: March 21, 2016, 12:11:03 PM »
I think the origin is based on the tradition of the wedding being made by the kallah's father, so naturally he would select his rov rather than the chosson's rosh yeshiva. The wedding would be held in the kallah's town so the rov of the town was probably the only one on hand to perform the wedding anyway.
I hear that, and I would totally understand a shul Rov being upset if his congregant was making a wedding (for a daughter) and gave siddur kiddushin to his (ie the father's) R"Y instead of the Rov. But how often is the kallah's father choosing the mesader kiddushin these days?

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #71 on: March 21, 2016, 12:15:07 PM »
That makes zero sense. The kiddushin is one of the main parts of the chuppah ceremony, (and the main part lehalacha). They called up the eidei kiddushin and somehow forgot to do the kiddushin itself? 
Not so crazy. He had a checklist in his head and omitted one item.
The question is what did he miss? Were the eidim called up? If they were, wouldn't you think they would say something if they didn't get to see what they came up there for?

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #72 on: March 21, 2016, 12:33:40 PM »
The question is what did he miss? Were the eidim called up? If they were, wouldn't you think they would say something if they didn't get to see what they came up there for?
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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #73 on: March 21, 2016, 12:43:34 PM »
The question is what did he miss? Were the eidim called up? If they were, wouldn't you think they would say something if they didn't get to see what they came up there for?
Forget about the Rabbi.
Didn't the chosson/kalla realize?

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #74 on: March 21, 2016, 12:47:20 PM »
Forget about the Rabbi.
Didn't the chosson/kalla realize?
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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #75 on: March 21, 2016, 12:49:51 PM »
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They brought him a cup of water.

שו"ע או"ח סי' ר"ו סעיף ה' - אין מברכין לא על אוכל ולא על משקה עד שיביאוהו לפניו, בירך ואחר כך הביאוהו לפניו צריך לברך פעם אחרת
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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #76 on: March 21, 2016, 12:53:10 PM »
שו"ע או"ח סי' ר"ו סעיף ה' - אין מברכין לא על אוכל ולא על משקה עד שיביאוהו לפניו, בירך ואחר כך הביאוהו לפניו צריך לברך פעם אחרת
Maybe could drink the wine with a shahakol. Maybe..

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #77 on: March 21, 2016, 01:04:04 PM »

שו"ע או"ח סי' ר"ו סעיף ה' - אין מברכין לא על אוכל ולא על משקה עד שיביאוהו לפניו, בירך ואחר כך הביאוהו לפניו צריך לברך פעם אחרת


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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #78 on: March 21, 2016, 01:07:39 PM »

It sounds to me like "bara lechvodo"

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Re: any funny Chuppah stories ?
« Reply #79 on: March 21, 2016, 01:12:17 PM »
It sounds to me like "bara lechvodo"
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