Poll

Was your firsr year of marriage harder than excpected?

Yes.
11 (20%)
No.
17 (30.9%)
It is still that hard years later.
7 (12.7%)
Marriage is a breeze nothing but enjoyment for me.
7 (12.7%)
I'm single, so wouldn't know.
13 (23.6%)

Total Members Voted: 54

Author Topic: First year of marriage  (Read 6212 times)

Offline HelpMe

  • Dansdeals Presidential Platinum Elite
  • ********
  • Join Date: Aug 2011
  • Posts: 3468
  • Total likes: 40
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 1
    • View Profile
Re: First year of marriage
« Reply #40 on: January 19, 2013, 11:21:35 AM »
Except that even in our community the numbers are lower for those who date long term
Now I am confused. That is what I am saying. Comparing same groups of people the divorce rate will be lower for those that date/engaged longer. Ex: Date/engaged 1-2 months compared to date/engaged 1-2 years.
"Elvis Has Left The Building"

Offline Chaikel

  • Global Moderator
  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • **********
  • Join Date: Jun 2008
  • Posts: 6842
  • Total likes: 174
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 20
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Programs: LH SEN, SPG Plat, Hyatt Plat, Rav Kav Platinum
Re: First year of marriage
« Reply #41 on: January 19, 2013, 11:50:58 AM »
Now I am confused. That is what I am saying. Comparing same groups of people the divorce rate will be lower for those that date/engaged longer. Ex: Date/engaged 1-2 months compared to date/engaged 1-2 years.
Sorry, I meant higher
Create professional looking itineraries.
Check out eliteitinerary.com

Offline HelpMe

  • Dansdeals Presidential Platinum Elite
  • ********
  • Join Date: Aug 2011
  • Posts: 3468
  • Total likes: 40
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 1
    • View Profile
Re: First year of marriage
« Reply #42 on: January 19, 2013, 12:07:59 PM »
Sorry, I meant higher
OK now that makes sense to what you are saying. Any figures on this or just a guess?
"Elvis Has Left The Building"

Offline Chaikel

  • Global Moderator
  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • **********
  • Join Date: Jun 2008
  • Posts: 6842
  • Total likes: 174
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 20
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Programs: LH SEN, SPG Plat, Hyatt Plat, Rav Kav Platinum
Re: First year of marriage
« Reply #43 on: January 19, 2013, 01:23:33 PM »
OK now that makes sense to what you are saying. Any figures on this or just a guess?
Don't believe any studies have been done, nor that the field is large enough for conclusive results, but it is how I see it.
Create professional looking itineraries.
Check out eliteitinerary.com

Offline yuneeq

  • Dansdeals Lifetime Presidential Platinum Elite
  • *********
  • Join Date: Jan 2013
  • Posts: 8880
  • Total likes: 4047
  • DansDeals.com Hat Tips 10
  • Gender: Male
    • View Profile
  • Location: NJ
Re: Re: First year of marriage
« Reply #44 on: January 19, 2013, 01:25:50 PM »
Don't believe any studies have been done, nor that the field is large enough for conclusive results, but it is how I see it.

I see it the same exact way.
Visibly Jewish