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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #160 on: February 12, 2014, 11:35:41 AM »
I think they came up with the study after looking at all the threads and seeing that 65 percent of comments are stupidity

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #161 on: February 12, 2014, 11:35:47 AM »
do you mind if you're not the only wife?
There should be a separate thread for that.
If you don't care why would you comment?
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #162 on: February 12, 2014, 11:36:30 AM »
Wait a minute, is there such a thing as a learner on DDF?
Highly doubt it. But from your above words it sounded like it's not a must.
So we can continue.

Just one more question, where's the couple going to live in?
1) I don't care
2) Eretz Yisroel
3) Lakewood
4) NYC
5) CLE (they pick up garbage on demand)
6) Anywhere in the US
7) Your hometown
8) His hometown
9) Other (please specify)
8) love it
If you don't care why would you comment?
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #163 on: February 12, 2014, 11:37:38 AM »

a recent study shows that 65 percent of DDF members are under the age of 18 so unless your interested in young sh-t........ Why don't you put an add on Craigslist with all your prefs learning........lol

I doubt that's true. Way too many ppl posting abt cc's and you need to be over 18 to apply.
For the record, I didn't mean for this thread to become my personal shadchan, was just putting it out there that there might be a lot of untapped resources for the many singles on DDF

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #164 on: February 12, 2014, 11:38:11 AM »
I think they came up with the study after looking at all the threads and seeing that 65 percent of comments are stupidity
Hmm..
I didn't join yesterday and I have yet to see this "study".
I also would like to see proof that the stupidity didn't come from adults.
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #165 on: February 12, 2014, 11:38:17 AM »
Do u mind if you only have one bathroom in your hotel on wedding night!!!!!!

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #166 on: February 12, 2014, 11:38:37 AM »
Wait a minute, is there such a thing as a learner on DDF?
Highly doubt it. But from your above words it sounded like it's not a must.
So we can continue.

Just one more question, where's the couple going to live in?
1) I don't care
2) Eretz Yisroel
3) Lakewood
4) NYC
5) CLE (they pick up garbage on demand)
6) Anywhere in the US
7) Your hometown
8) His hometown
9) Other (please specify)

LOL on the 8), try [nobbc] next time :P

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #167 on: February 12, 2014, 11:39:01 AM »
Do u mind if you only have one bathroom in your hotel on wedding night!!!!!!
Never mind. You just proved it.
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #168 on: February 12, 2014, 11:42:39 AM »

Wait a minute, is there such a thing as a learner on DDF?
Highly doubt it. But from your above words it sounded like it's not a must.
So we can continue.

Just one more question, where's the couple going to live in?
1) I don't care
2) Eretz Yisroel
3) Lakewood
4) NYC
5) CLE (they pick up garbage on demand)
6) Anywhere in the US
7) Your hometown
8) His hometown
9) Other (please specify)

2 in beginning (if possible)
After that 6- which covers 3-8

Quite a compelling argument for Cleveland

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #169 on: February 12, 2014, 11:44:14 AM »

Id worry more abt whether there's gonna be a jacuzzi in the living room

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #170 on: February 12, 2014, 11:50:57 AM »
Oiy, I hope ^ doesn't get her hopes up as meshugener tries, in vain, to play DDF shadchan.
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #171 on: February 12, 2014, 11:51:19 AM »
Once we're bringing in the hotel for wedding night thread...Will you feel bad if he sleeps on the couch? Would you consider it practice for whats to come? Would you offer to sleep on the couch?

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #172 on: February 12, 2014, 11:52:21 AM »
Once we're bringing in the hotel for wedding night thread...Will you feel bad if he sleeps on the couch? Would you consider it practice for whats to come? Would you offer to sleep on the couch?
Okaaaay, Raphy, past your bedtime. :P
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #173 on: February 12, 2014, 11:53:59 AM »

Oiy, I hope ^ doesn't get her hopes up as meshugener tries, in vain, to play DDF shadchan.

Learned long ago not to expect anything. No hopes are raised

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #174 on: February 12, 2014, 11:54:58 AM »
Only way I'd see this thread working is if one member (preferably not meshug :P ) is a designated shaddchin who members can discreetly send their resume (or an email explaing what they want) to. Then that member can try and match up different resumes. Hopefully will also read all the users posts to look for common interests and personality types.

Obviously DD gets a shadchanis cut and being that I've made shdduchim before anyone who wants to send their resume over I'd be glad to do some leg work.

Seriously though if one member volunteered to do that is how this would work.

It's a pretty good idea as many members already have so many common interests.
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #175 on: February 12, 2014, 11:55:52 AM »
Okaaaay, Raphy, past your bedtime. :P
It is almost 2am...

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #176 on: February 12, 2014, 11:56:54 AM »
It is almost 2am...
So you really are in Japan?
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #177 on: February 12, 2014, 12:00:29 PM »
It's a pretty good idea as many members already have so many common interests.
I can see it now. 3 year old kids flying business class, discussing miles, walking around with a different CC every few days, and throwing in some diapers so their CVS charges don't look suspicious.
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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #178 on: February 12, 2014, 12:01:21 PM »

Only way I'd see this thread working is if one member (preferably not meshug :P ) is a designated shaddchin who members can discreetly send their resume (or an email explaing what they want) to. Then that member can try and match up different resumes. Hopefully will also read all the users posts to look for common interests and personality types.

Obviously DD gets a shadchanis cut and being that I've made shdduchim before anyone who wants to send their resume over I'd be glad to do some leg work.

Seriously though if one member volunteered to do that is how this would work.

It's a pretty good idea as many members already have so many common interests.

That was the idea I had originally, but don't know enough about each member to see who could be the DD shadchan.
Wanna pm ur email address? I'll send my resume. Again, no expectations but harbei shluchim l"makom... You never know!

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Re: DD Shidduchim
« Reply #179 on: February 12, 2014, 12:02:15 PM »
So you really are in Japan?
Nope. I seriously wonder sometimes why you have such an issue understanding my tone of voice:P