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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #100 on: March 31, 2013, 02:02:46 PM »
#Naive

He probably just hasn't read the whole thread.
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #102 on: March 31, 2013, 02:16:16 PM »
Not sure wats so bad abt that q
read the thread and you will see

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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #103 on: March 31, 2013, 02:19:01 PM »
In CH, you don't go directly to a Kallah teacher, rather, there is a "central dispatch" for Kallah teachers. If a Kallah wants to set up a class, she calls a certain lady who sends her to one of the Kallah teachers in CH. Does it work this way outside of CH too?

If so, this may explain how an individual can get hold of all this information.

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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #104 on: March 31, 2013, 02:29:43 PM »
In CH, you don't go directly to a Kallah teacher, rather, there is a "central dispatch" for Kallah teachers. If a Kallah wants to set up a class, she calls a certain lady who sends her to one of the Kallah teachers in CH. Does it work this way outside of CH too?

If so, this may explain how an individual can get hold of all this information.
Out of CH  AFAIK it is mainly word of mouth not so much a dispatch system. I wonder if these calls are happening only in NY or other places as well.

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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #105 on: April 09, 2013, 08:14:25 PM »
Did anything end up happening with this?
Someone i know very well got a phone call from this guy (only found out afterwards).
The person's number was given to this phsycho by an unsuspecting friend.
She spent a large amount of time on the phone and only the next day when discussing the conversation with s/o  else, was she told that it was a scam.
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The number was 347-585-8198
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #107 on: April 09, 2013, 10:22:19 PM »
Its not that simple.
This guy is not just calling random people off a phone book.
That the sick part of it: he's actually doing research on the woman he calls.
When he called my wife he knew her name and some other personal info., so factor that behind the psychology why someone (and especially women) feel more lenient to talk, till the discussion gets weird and... that she realizes she has to hang up the phone.
I was told that unless the guy uses specific info about the person its not a crime. Otherwise it can be classified as stalking.
Meshugener, if this was the case, you should pursue it with the authorities (for everyones sake).
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #108 on: April 09, 2013, 10:34:11 PM »
IMHO the authorities can catch the guy in no time if they wanted to.

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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #109 on: April 09, 2013, 10:35:26 PM »
IMHO the authorities can catch the guy in no time if they wanted to.
And why arent they?
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #110 on: April 09, 2013, 11:03:48 PM »
And why arent they?
Is there a crime to solve? a criminal to catch? did people complain? is it mesira? is there a question of public safety?....dunno.

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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #111 on: April 09, 2013, 11:06:49 PM »
Is there a crime to solve?
yes
a criminal to catch?
yes
did people complain?
i think so
is it mesira?
probably not but ALOR
is there a question of public safety?....dunno.
Maybe not public safety.........
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #112 on: April 09, 2013, 11:09:30 PM »
Still fail to see a scenario in which my wife would give this guy more than three second on the phone
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #113 on: April 09, 2013, 11:16:13 PM »
May not be stalking - doesn't sound like he continues calling once you yell or threaten or ignore him.

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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #114 on: April 09, 2013, 11:18:38 PM »
May not be stalking - doesn't sound like he continues calling once you yell or threaten or ignore him.
No. but if he knows and mentions specific info, i was told it can be classified as such.
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #115 on: April 09, 2013, 11:19:13 PM »
even if he calls one time????

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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #116 on: April 09, 2013, 11:19:40 PM »
even if he calls one time????
Not sure i dont know the laws.
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #117 on: April 09, 2013, 11:34:01 PM »
May not be stalking - doesn't sound like he continues calling once you yell or threaten or ignore him.
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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #118 on: April 10, 2013, 12:50:00 PM »


Peoplesmart.com has a professional investigation service for 79.99 per number. They guarantee a name and address or your money back. They manually research the number for you. Obviously, if the guy is using a prepaid phone, it may not be possible to trace. (depends on what name he put in when he activated the phone).

But then again, they guarantee money back...

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Re: Wife Got Inappropriate Phone Call
« Reply #119 on: April 10, 2013, 12:58:02 PM »
Peoplesmart.com has a professional investigation service for 79.99 per number. They guarantee a name and address or your money back. They manually research the number for you. Obviously, if the guy is using a prepaid phone, it may not be possible to trace. (depends on what name he put in when he activated the phone).

But then again, they guarantee money back...
Maybe we can make an appeal? I'm sure people won't mind giving $5 each, all we need is 16 people....