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The lady ate the bread
« on: July 06, 2010, 05:24:52 AM »
Question:

A lady made a neder that in the next 30 days from now she won't eat bread.

Her husband said on day 1, that if by day 30 his wife won't have eaten anything that is ossur, she shall be divorced from today (le'achar 30 yom me'achshov).

On day 10 the husband was mayfer the neder of his wife.

On day 15 his wife ate bread.

Since her neder was abolished, she wasn't eating something which is ossur, so the get was chal.

If the get was chal (from day 1), he husband couldn't be mayfer her neder, and thus she ate something ossur, and she is not divorced.

If she is not divorced, her husband could be mayfer the neder, and so on...



There is an answer (toisfos), but I wanna see some discussion going on.






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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #1 on: July 06, 2010, 06:03:48 AM »
Can't the husband only be mayfer within 24 hours?
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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #2 on: July 06, 2010, 06:15:32 AM »
Can't the husband only be mayfer within 24 hours?

Sounds more like a Continental type of husband.

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #3 on: July 06, 2010, 06:57:48 AM »
When he says la'acher shlosim yom ma'achshov, isn't the ma'achsov only chal when the second part (shloshim yom) happens?

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #4 on: July 06, 2010, 08:24:31 AM »
When he says la'acher shlosim yom ma'achshov, isn't the ma'achsov only chal when the second part (shloshim yom) happens?

Yes, correct.

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #5 on: July 06, 2010, 09:39:18 AM »
Sounds like a "mikan ulhaba, lemafreah" case which means that the lemafreah cannot effect eralier than now and will not affect an earlier chalos.

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #6 on: July 06, 2010, 12:21:17 PM »
It happens later-lemafrea, but once its emafrea, it obviously becomes retroactively before.

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #7 on: July 06, 2010, 12:37:03 PM »
um.. umm... not really what I said

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #8 on: July 06, 2010, 12:49:25 PM »
You are right.

It is not what you said.

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #9 on: July 06, 2010, 05:59:41 PM »
Chaikel: Its one day from when he hears about the neder

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #10 on: July 06, 2010, 06:09:22 PM »
Chaikel: Its one day from when he hears about the neder

Well, I left the "when he heard about her neder" out of it.

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #11 on: July 06, 2010, 06:48:10 PM »
Chaikel: Its one day from when he hears about the neder
I'm aware. I misread the original question. I thought the בעל's תנאי was תלוי in her neder. In which case he has to know about it on day one
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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #12 on: July 06, 2010, 09:31:01 PM »
Where is the toisfes that you said? i once heard the same question a little diff. reuven gave shimon meat and wine on the tenei that shimons son wont a ben sorer imoire, the son went and ate and drank it up, now the sheila is if its shimons then the son is a sorer if its reuvens then he is not (he is only chayev if he steals from his father) (in the sheila from the lady was soppossed to say instead of A lady made a neder that in the next 30 days from now she won't "eat bread". eat "this bread" cause a neder is only on a cheftsa not on a gavra and a shevuah is on a gavra and im not sure tha a husband can be mayfer a shevuah)

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #13 on: July 06, 2010, 10:34:44 PM »
Chaikel: Its one day from when he hears about the neder
It's actually till the end of the day, the rambam writes: הפרת נדרים כל היום ואינה מעת לעת

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Re: The lady ate the bread
« Reply #14 on: July 06, 2010, 10:50:13 PM »
Where is the toisfes that you said? i once heard the same question a little diff. reuven gave shimon meat and wine on the tenei that shimons son wont a ben sorer imoire, the son went and ate and drank it up, now the sheila is if its shimons then the son is a sorer if its reuvens then he is not (he is only chayev if he steals from his father) (in the sheila from the lady was soppossed to say instead of A lady made a neder that in the next 30 days from now she won't "eat bread". eat "this bread" cause a neder is only on a cheftsa not on a gavra and a shevuah is on a gavra and im not sure tha a husband can be mayfer a shevuah)

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