Nothing I've seen offers the convenience of a minivan.
If you use the 3rd row you have no trunk and if it does have a 3rd row and a trunk it's a monstrosity that can't be parked and gets awful gas mileage.
Am I wrong?
+100.
if ur looking for a minivan none of the above mentioned suv's are comparable (highlander ,pilot, traverse, cx9, explorer, traverse, arcadia, Durango)have no room for storage when using the 3rd row the ford flex does has room but its a very long truck its not a minivan.now u said alternative which u explained "were I live I'm more inclined to get an SUV for many reasons.." I understand u mean weather the Toyota sienna has an awd model u can check that out.
As for some of these suv's u would like to consider there gas mileage also