Author Topic: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!  (Read 7730 times)

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #40 on: June 23, 2013, 04:44:48 PM »
Most Kiddushim happen even later than that...

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #41 on: June 23, 2013, 04:45:51 PM »
Most Kiddushim happen even later than that...
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #42 on: June 23, 2013, 04:47:24 PM »
Thats not late...
+1
I heard about a kiddush 22 Years later, as a segule for a shidduch  (she got married the same year ).
Her parents forgot to do a kidush when she was born.
I know her parents .

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #43 on: June 23, 2013, 04:49:47 PM »
+1
I heard about a kiddush 22 Years later, as a segule for a shidduch  (she got married the same year ).
Her parents forgot to do a kidush when she was born.
I know her parents .
good thing they forgot...

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #44 on: June 23, 2013, 04:53:09 PM »
R' Sternbach holds the kiddush must be within 30 days, but many say it should be the first shabbos
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #45 on: June 23, 2013, 04:59:09 PM »
good thing they forgot...
Actually they didn't remember if they did a kidush.

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #46 on: June 23, 2013, 05:01:02 PM »
good thing they forgot...
Lol

R' Chaim writes in one of his sefarim that the famous story about his father the Steipler how a couple came in complaining their daughter isnt married yet so he tell them to make a kiddush for her and they do and she gets married etc...is not true.

Will try to remember where he writes it.
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #47 on: June 23, 2013, 05:18:20 PM »
+1
I heard about a kiddush 22 Years later, as a segule for a shidduch  (she got married the same year ).
Her parents forgot to do a kidush when she was born.
I know her parents .
And I (nebach) know a girl that they made a kiddush for and still hasn't got engaged. (6 yrs? :'( )

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #48 on: June 23, 2013, 06:44:18 PM »
And I (nebach) know a girl that they made a kiddush for and still hasn't got engaged. (6 yrs? :'( )
Oh wow she's 6 already? I know some 11 year olds if it's getting desperate.

Sorry you were just way to vague.
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #49 on: June 23, 2013, 06:55:57 PM »
Oh wow she's 6 already? I know some 11 year olds if it's getting desperate.

Sorry you were just way to vague.
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #50 on: June 24, 2013, 01:14:01 AM »
R' Sternbach holds the kiddush must be within 30 days, but many say it should be the first shabbos
What's the makor for this? (I don't get it, a kiddush is a made up modern thing, how could it have halachos?)
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #51 on: June 24, 2013, 08:34:00 AM »
What's the makor for this? (I don't get it, a kiddush is a made up modern thing, how could it have halachos?)
Oh really now?
Is a bris a made up modern thing as well?

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #52 on: June 24, 2013, 09:15:12 AM »
What's the makor for this? (I don't get it, a kiddush is a made up modern thing, how could it have halachos?)

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #53 on: June 24, 2013, 09:16:08 AM »
Oh really now?
Is a bris a made up modern thing as well?
Nice comparison. ???
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #54 on: June 24, 2013, 09:34:45 AM »
Oh really now?
Is a bris a made up modern thing as well?
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #55 on: June 24, 2013, 09:41:16 AM »
And G-D came to Sara on the 30th day of her life and said thou shall make a party.  DDF24:7
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #56 on: June 24, 2013, 09:56:14 AM »
The minhag isn't new at all. And most have the minhag to make it the first Shabbos or the second Shabbos. The minhag has of course different minhagim like everything in Judaism.

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #57 on: June 24, 2013, 11:20:40 AM »
The minhag isn't new at all. And most have the minhag to make it the first Shabbos or the second Shabbos. The minhag has of course different minhagim like everything in Judaism.
Source?

Oh really now?
Is a bris a made up modern thing as well?
Seriously? You are comparing a mitzvas aseh d'oraisa to having a kiddush for a girl.


You all keep saying that this thing is rooted in sources and no one has even bothered to try and quote something
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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #58 on: June 24, 2013, 11:30:38 AM »
And G-D came to Sara on the 30th day of her life and said thou shall make a party.  DDF24:6

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Re: Mazel tov MEIR613!!!
« Reply #59 on: June 24, 2013, 12:51:34 PM »
Nice comparison. ???
#1 I hope you didn't think that I was really trying to compare a d'oiriesa to making a kidish, just I thought that making a kidish for a baby girl is something that everybody does and it has strong m'koires so I thought that anybody who says that you don't don't have to make a kidish that it comes from total ignorance therefore I compared it to a bris.

But I see now that I wasn't that right ( I don't have girls yet so I never reviewed this subject ),
I did some searching and I found this one, it's from שו"ת נשמת שבת, לר' ישראל דוד הארפנס, here's a photo of it.