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Shoes for Tisha Bav
« on: July 15, 2013, 01:41:38 PM »
I am located near Grand Central Station in NYC. Just woke up and realized I do not have shoes to wear tomorrow. I need something that I can wear to work as well. Obviously, the cheaper the better. All suggestions welcome!

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #1 on: July 15, 2013, 01:42:59 PM »
Pick up a cheap pair of converse or the like.
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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #2 on: July 15, 2013, 01:44:51 PM »
Thanks. Any suggestion closest place? I am going ot have to go after work before I head home.

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #3 on: July 15, 2013, 01:46:00 PM »
Im not from the area,, sorry. Try searching google for any shoe store around you.
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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #4 on: July 15, 2013, 02:06:44 PM »
Or crocs . There's footlocker store and other sneaker stores in city

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #5 on: July 15, 2013, 02:15:18 PM »
Or crocs . There's footlocker store and other sneaker stores in city
appreciate it. Will try converse at Modells since they are more work appropriate.

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #6 on: July 15, 2013, 02:48:45 PM »
http://matzav.com/rav-elyashiv-crocs-forbidden-on-yom-kippur

I assume this applies to Tisha B'av as well.

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #7 on: July 15, 2013, 03:05:56 PM »
http://matzav.com/rav-elyashiv-crocs-forbidden-on-yom-kippur

I assume this applies to Tisha B'av as well.
now the question is did rav elyashiv actually say that. if he did, does he understand what crocks are himself or did someone describe to him what they are.

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #8 on: July 15, 2013, 03:06:56 PM »
Can everyone do a friend a favor and change their socks before rolling into shul?  :P :P

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #9 on: July 15, 2013, 03:09:35 PM »
I am located near Grand Central Station in NYC. Just woke up and realized I do not have shoes to wear tomorrow. I need something that I can wear to work as well. Obviously, the cheaper the better. All suggestions welcome!

Maybe there's a Payless around that can help you, FWICR (decades ago...), Payless has "disposable" shoes for cheap, great for TB.
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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #10 on: July 15, 2013, 04:02:03 PM »
Someone I know went to ask R' Moshe Shternbuch on erev TB (or maybe YK, dont remember) if he could wear crocs, and lo and behold, the rav was wearing crocs!
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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #11 on: July 15, 2013, 04:27:22 PM »
Maybe there's a Payless around that can help you, FWICR (decades ago...), Payless has "disposable" shoes for cheap, great for TB.
Unfortunately, nothing close enough. I appreciate the heads up nonetheless. A large box store in the neighborhood has a sneaker close to my size. they told me that if its no good I can return it (even once worn). If the size is no good, I can return it without feeling bad. If it works, ill keep it for YK (hopefully the last 9 Av)

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #12 on: July 15, 2013, 04:30:13 PM »
http://matzav.com/rav-elyashiv-crocs-forbidden-on-yom-kippur

I assume this applies to Tisha B'av as well.
There is actually a difference, YK it's for Inuy so some poskim hold that any comfortable shoes are out, TB is for Aveilus and therefore it's just a problem with leather.

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #13 on: July 15, 2013, 04:37:24 PM »
There is actually a difference, YK it's for Inuy so some poskim hold that any comfortable shoes are out, TB is for Aveilus and therefore it's just a problem with leather.
Source?
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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #14 on: July 15, 2013, 05:55:12 PM »
Source?
Shu"a Harav Siman 614 end of S'If 2 and 3 According to the interpretations of SOME Chabad Rabbonim. I don't know about non-Chabad Poskim but what about this?:
http://matzav.com/rav-elyashiv-crocs-forbidden-on-yom-kippur

I assume this applies to Tisha B'av as well.

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #15 on: July 15, 2013, 06:51:47 PM »
Shu"a Harav Siman 614 end of S'If 2 and 3 According to the interpretations of SOME Chabad Rabbonim. I don't know about non-Chabad Poskim but what about this?:
Everyone knows that story is BS.
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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #16 on: July 15, 2013, 07:10:10 PM »
Then maybe it's only the Ba'al Hatanya.
And again that's only according to some rabbonim.

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #17 on: July 15, 2013, 07:12:17 PM »
And again that's only according to some rabbonim.
Which ones? Don't think R' Chaikin learns it that way.
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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #18 on: July 15, 2013, 07:18:19 PM »
Which ones? Don't think R' Chaikin learns it that way.
neither does my Rov. But my rov told me that some Rabonim learn it that way.

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Re: Shoes for Tisha Bav
« Reply #19 on: July 15, 2013, 07:47:56 PM »
According to the explanation given to ban crocs, any sneakers that are man made but comfortable (and could be worn on a regular day) would be just as assur as crocs. I love seeing these self righteous people who refuse to wear crocs because it 'assur' and instead wear comfortable sneakers/non leather shoes etc.