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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #120 on: August 08, 2013, 09:19:59 PM »
Unfortunately, I agree with cv this time. If he "forgives" it at this point, he's only doing it because he can't collect, not out of the goodness of his heart. If the guy offered to pay and he says, it's ok-I know you are having a hard time, you can keep it-that would be a different story.
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #121 on: August 08, 2013, 10:25:05 PM »
He would probably have more success with chamur (unless he's Hasidic)
Come on, you can't say חחחח??
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #122 on: August 08, 2013, 10:32:06 PM »
Here's an interesting angle: What is the value of this chov? Definitely not 100 cents on the dollar.

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #123 on: August 08, 2013, 11:03:43 PM »
Unfortunately, I agree with cv this time. If he "forgives" it at this point, he's only doing it because he can't collect, not out of the goodness of his heart. If the guy offered to pay and he says, it's ok-I know you are having a hard time, you can keep it-that would be a different story.
Now that is maaser in my book!
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #124 on: August 08, 2013, 11:06:05 PM »
Here's an interesting angle: What is the value of this chov? Definitely not 100 cents on the dollar.
Then Ribis would be Mutar?

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #125 on: August 08, 2013, 11:07:54 PM »
Then Ribis would be Mutar?
I am talking about the value which you can claim.

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #126 on: August 08, 2013, 11:10:07 PM »
Unfortunately, I agree with cv this time. If he "forgives" it at this point, he's only doing it because he can't collect, not out of the goodness of his heart. If the guy offered to pay and he says, it's ok-I know you are having a hard time, you can keep it-that would be a different story.
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #127 on: August 08, 2013, 11:14:31 PM »
He has no obligation to be mochel the debt.
If he chooses to be mochel (assuming the guy classifies as an oni)  then it is pure tzedakah.

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #128 on: August 08, 2013, 11:17:04 PM »
Unfortunately, I agree with cv this time. If he "forgives" it at this point, he's only doing it because he can't collect, not out of the goodness of his heart. If the guy offered to pay and he says, it's ok-I know you are having a hard time, you can keep it-that would be a different story.

Beis din is allowed to compel someone to pay tzedaka, that wouldn't be considered maaser?


If he chooses to be mochel (assuming the guy classifies as an oni)  then it is pure tzedakah.
If there is no money to collect, the debt is worthless, what is the tzedaka? If it is under a corporation without shiaabud haguf then there's literally not even a debt.
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #129 on: August 08, 2013, 11:19:56 PM »
The debt is that this guy owes money. If he has it or not he still owes it.
He will burn in hell / or may come back as a gillgul cause he owes money.

Now if your mochel, it is a complete present.
I think one can be mikadesh a ishah.... let me check

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #130 on: August 08, 2013, 11:28:46 PM »
I am talking about the value which you can claim.
A chov is never worth 100 cents
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #131 on: August 08, 2013, 11:29:44 PM »
Beis din is allowed to compel someone to pay tzedaka, that wouldn't be considered maaser?
Confused as to the relevance
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #132 on: August 08, 2013, 11:51:43 PM »
A chov is never worth 100 cents
My point exactly.

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #133 on: August 09, 2013, 12:05:53 AM »
Why is everyone assuming hes a yid

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #134 on: August 09, 2013, 12:12:17 AM »
Why is everyone assuming hes a yid
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #135 on: August 09, 2013, 12:14:26 AM »
Do ahreilim know what CC's are? ;)

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #136 on: August 09, 2013, 12:52:43 AM »
The debt is that this guy owes money. If he has it or not he still owes it.
He will burn in hell / or may come back as a gillgul cause he owes money.

Now if your mochel, it is a complete present.
I think one can be mikadesh a ishah.... let me check
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Rambam does pasken Mecher is chal, but that's it's own mystery.

Also it's quite possible he doesn't personally owe anything.

Confused as to the relevance
in a case where beis din compelled someone to give tzedaka, it was not given out of goodness of heart, yet clearly it counts as Masser.
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #137 on: August 09, 2013, 01:07:42 AM »
Having him arrested would be considered mesirah, which is very chumor in Jewish law.


Now you have two words to google.
No need to Google anything. If it is a criminal matter (fraud) Jewish, Roman Catholic or any other religious law needs to mind their own business and stay out of it.
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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #138 on: August 09, 2013, 02:53:44 AM »
in a case where beis din compelled someone to give tzedaka, it was not given out of goodness of heart, yet clearly it counts as Masser.
What if instead of the beis din forcing, it's Tony from the mob? Once a beis din is out of the picture, it would seem less clear if this would count as tzedakah.
Plus, the original transfer of the goods was without any intent for charity.

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Re: Sold miles seller tells me not to cash check
« Reply #139 on: August 09, 2013, 03:46:34 AM »
This thread is waaay OT.
Is there really no tzedaka/maaser master thread lurking around somewhere?
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