>>>>>>>>My credit is fabulous.My husband is nervous about me starting to play these games because a. He's worried about messing with the credit score, and b. He's afraid that in the long run, it will cost us in fees and such
We were all nervous once
You sound like a good candidate for "these games". As long as you make sure you pay the cc bill EVERY time & keep track of the cards you will be just fine. This can be VERY addictive, especially when you redeem, err score, some nice travel deals with your points!
Transfer the points out to United or British Airways or Hyatt or Southwest and then apply for another Chase card, so many to choose from! If not instantly approved, call the Reconsideration phone line and offer to reduce the credit line of the Sapphire card you have now to get the new card approved. If no go, offer to cancel it. I would not worry about downgrading it to a free card, one more card to keep track off. If instantly approved, just go ahead and cancel it, it's ok (it would be great if you can go for the Ink Bold card but it is a business card and there is a whole different "way of behaving" to get it if you do not have a real business)
Oh, and get hubby a card. Tell him to use it. Get an authorized card for yourself from his card to help him use it to meet the minimum spend!
It's ALL in the signing bonus baby!
Just keep it simple & sane. It can take over your life