Payday is Friday. On Monday they want to borrow $1 for a cigarette or a couple of bucks for the bus. Then want to pay me back in two weeks after payday. No problem. You don't pay me back then don't ever ask me again. It is not my place to remind you.
Wow. So if someone is that destitute that they need to borrow a small amount and pay you back two weeks after payday, you would actually want to be paid back rather than just having mercy on the guy?
I specifically approached a person who did not pay me back, and seemed to be avoiding me, that he shouldn't hesitate to ask again. It so happened, that the next time he asked I didn't have what he asked for available, but at least I didn't want him to feel that he needs to avoid me or be ashamed of me. I counted the money given to him out of my Ma'aser.