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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3220 on: September 24, 2019, 03:08:47 PM »
ברשות הגבאים must mean that he's telling them that they are giving reshus whether they like it or not.
kinda like ברשות מרנן etc by bentching...

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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3221 on: September 24, 2019, 04:07:00 PM »
When a guy collecting gets up and "ברשות הגביים" gives a whole speech towards the end of davening.
I can tell you that where I daven someone who does that will be told to wait until after davening is over.
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3222 on: September 24, 2019, 04:15:44 PM »
I can tell you that where I daven someone who does that will be told to wait until after davening is over.
I honestly don't understand how anyone might think it's OK to do this while people daven. I don't recall ever hearing them asking people to please stop Davening for a moment.
I've been waiting over 5 years with bated breath for someone to say that!
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3223 on: September 24, 2019, 04:55:13 PM »
I honestly don't understand how anyone might think it's OK to do this while people daven. I don't recall ever hearing them asking people to please stop Davening for a moment.
I find that some will start before aleinu at mariv for example. I also do not understand how someone can find it to be okay, but have BH never been in their shoes.
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3224 on: September 24, 2019, 04:58:36 PM »
I find that some will start before aleinu at mariv for example. I also do not understand how someone can find it to be okay, but have BH never been in their shoes.
I think before aleinu would be acceptable if they would start off by asking people to wait before saying aleinu, rather than expect people to listen to them while saying aleinu.
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3225 on: September 24, 2019, 05:02:17 PM »
I think before aleinu would be acceptable if they would start off by asking people to wait before saying aleinu, rather than expect people to listen to them while saying aleinu.
Hence the "birshus"?
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3226 on: September 24, 2019, 05:05:31 PM »
Hence the "birshus"?

Do they say ברשות המתפללים?
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3227 on: September 24, 2019, 05:07:37 PM »
Do they say ברשות המתפללים?
I don't think it makes a difference. They should not be disturbing the flow of davening at all. This is besides that there is typically a decent portion of the shul who still didn't finish shmone esrei.
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3228 on: September 24, 2019, 05:31:34 PM »
I can tell you that where I daven someone who does that will be told to wait until after davening is over.
I've done that before, but it made me feel really bad since I don't know what that person is going through, and I might upset them. But when I'm asked I always say to wait for after Davening is over
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3229 on: September 24, 2019, 08:05:45 PM »
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3230 on: September 24, 2019, 09:17:20 PM »
My phone does not stop ringing robo calls for tzedaka. It's bad enough when 10 mosdos call right when I come home. It's much worse when they each call 3 times!!!
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3231 on: September 24, 2019, 09:54:13 PM »
My phone does not stop ringing robo calls for tzedaka. It's bad enough when 10 mosdos call right when I come home. It's much worse when they each call 3 times!!!
Ask them to send a prestamped envelope in the mail, and send them a dollar bill.
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3232 on: September 24, 2019, 10:11:30 PM »
Ask them to send a prestamped envelope in the mail, and send them a dollar bill.

Nah tell them to come around your shul during davening

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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3233 on: September 24, 2019, 10:45:24 PM »
Ask them to send a prestamped envelope in the mail, and send them a dollar bill.
robocalls...
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3234 on: September 24, 2019, 10:46:39 PM »
robocalls...
And the robots can take your credit card info?
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3235 on: September 24, 2019, 10:52:06 PM »
And the robots can take your credit card info?
You have to press a number to be transferred to an agent
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3236 on: September 29, 2019, 10:55:37 AM »
The extra guy at hattaras nedarim

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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3237 on: September 29, 2019, 11:03:19 AM »
The extra guy at hattaras nedarim

Doesn't bother as much as the guy that leaves after he's done rather than waiting for everyone (minhag Chabad being doing it in front of 10, so a total of 11 needed).
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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
« Reply #3238 on: September 29, 2019, 12:32:43 PM »
Doesn't bother as much as the guy that leaves after he's done rather than waiting for everyone (minhag Chabad being doing it in front of 10, so a total of 11 needed).
Always wondered about thel 11 total. For everything else you  need 10 in the room. But that's for a different thread

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Re: Master Thread of Pet Peeves
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